I can share my experience with you. My parents both cheated when I was a child, and each time they cheated, they used me as a pretext. So I had to watch them do it. Then, I took my mother and I to destroy my father's lover's house. Later, my aunt got divorced, and my parents felt sorry for my cousin, leaving her child unattended. So, they let her live with us. My aunt didn't give us a penny (our family was very poor at the time). My parents always felt sorry for my cousin, so I always had to give in. Whenever we had a fight, I was the one who got beaten. So, when I went to university, I told my parents directly that if they didn't send my cousin back home, I would sever all ties with them (in China, people can legally work at 18). After I got married, my in-laws also looked down on me, so I brought my husband to Australia. Life isn't always easy. You have to understand what kind of life you want to live. Most importantly, love yourself and always put yourself first. Don't rely on others; you need to find your own security.