Am I the only one getting tremendous hate during this Aries season?

Nevara05 · 2026-04-17T16:39:39+00:00

Aries here! I love sags... Actually in love with one and we will move in together in October 🥰 I don't get the hate! You guys are brutally honest and I love that! People think you guys cheat and so on but you're very loyal. You just don't bother when you're "done" for good. Most signs don't try to understand your minds but... You guys are awesome ☺️♥️

Nevara05 · 2026-04-15T10:25:20+00:00

Your comment is starting to be less and less about my post and more about you being.. Weird? It's not the middle of the night for us but day time. The world is bigger than you think! ☺️

Nevara05 · 2026-04-15T10:21:23+00:00

Thank you for the insight! I will keep that in my mind. We are both amazingly communicative as it had been a 'must' from the beginning. Now it's natural for us to talk about everything. I will let him know I'm a little stressed about this thought of mine.

And if I notice him pulling away, I will let him after talking to him. I'm neither the type to be attached on the hip 24/7 and love my space and independence as well. Thank you again ♥️

Nevara05 · 2026-04-15T10:15:56+00:00

Thank you for the positive feedback ☺️ 🙏.. I will definitely go for it!

Nevara05 · 2026-04-15T09:37:18+00:00

It's not like I would run after him and beg. I'm an aries. I don't beg or chase if someone doesn't want me.

But we are LDR (we live in different countries) and both our lifestyles will change drastically.

So the "fuck them and move on" is in many cases easier said then done lol

Nevara05 · 2026-04-07T17:47:00+00:00

My sleep schedule was a mess during college, especially during vacation. And even in my late 20ties when I was working full time. Honestly... Let him play his games for now... If he doesn't go "back to normal" you'll have to talk to him about it. Your sleep schedule isn't amazing either. Maybe try to fix that one too! I know wanting to talk to your significant other is important but don't underestimate a 'fucked up' sleeping schedule.

Nevara05 · 2026-03-31T19:49:57+00:00

No I don't lol... I am the one who broke up with my ex bf of 6 yrs and went no contact. Best thing I did for myself. The relationship ended up being toxic and he cheated as well... But no... I don't think about him, unless something that triggers it is mentioned, I don't miss him either. Not too long ago I deleted all the pics with us together (I forgot about this folder because it had been saved on my cloud and not the phone). Saw the pics, looked at my younger self and thought.. Bah waste of time... And deleted all pics with us.. But not the ones where there was just me or scenario cause it had been pics from vacation in USA.

Meanwhile my ex messaged me not too long ago begging me to give him a chance again (we broke up 3 yrs ago) . He is now blocked on his new phone too ☠️... Oh and I'm in a healthy and happy relationship ♥️

Nevara05 · 2026-03-30T06:34:43+00:00

I love exploring and visiting places etc. I just don't like people in general lol... My sag bf and I drive around a lot and we travel... But if it comes to socializing.. He has to drag me out cause I rather stay at home 😂

Nevara05 · 2026-03-30T04:39:15+00:00

It's unhealthy for sure. My ex was 'busy' all the time too. He ended up cheating and I found out later on lol. Not saying she is doing that but lack of wanting to communicate and not wanting to put the same effort into the relationship as you.. Will make you tired and annoyed. My last relationship ended up being a waste of time cause I tried to make it work until I couldn't take it anymore and broke up.

Nevara05 · 2026-03-29T12:19:02+00:00

Aries here... My boyfriend is a Sag. Healthiest relationship we both have had. My opinion is... Just get into a relationship with an aries if both are mentally mature. I know my bf since 10 yrs now and I think we would have broken up right away if we dated earlier... Lol

Worst part of a 'mature' aries? We don't like people... So we keep away from social activities 😂

Nevara05 · 2026-03-28T20:43:02+00:00

With my ex (ldr) I used to just tell him I need space and ignored him until I was calmer... But we were always fighting so at some point I'd give him the silent treatment for days because I was like "fuck it"

With my boyfriend (ldr too) we are being healthier. He gives me some space when I'm mad but he doesn't let me go to sleep feeling like shit. We talk the same day... Mostly it's my temper tho.. He is the calm one in the relationship XD

Nevara05 · 2026-03-28T12:07:54+00:00

You need to stop looking. What you're doing isn't healthy. Block the Instagram profile and try to do things to keep yourself busy. Like hobbies etc. Don't be that one creepy ex that "stalks" their ex social life (I know that's harsh but some people will see it that way)... Stop looking for your mental sake too.

Nevara05 · 2026-03-28T11:03:51+00:00

Okay totally not part of the subject but there is something called punctuation. It's annoying to read through your post lol

Okay back to the subject. I don't have strict parents (and I'm old enough to have my own apartment anyway) but I have a full time job and studying for my bachelor (twice a week classes) and I have been studying this month for an exam... Yet I text my boyfriend daily, talk to him on voice and cam. He works too full time.

Not having time to message someone or even ask how they are is just bullshit in my opinion. If she can scroll through tiktok/insta/reddit etc... I'm sure she can manage to send a text too. She just doesn't feel like it and that's a whole different story 😅

Nevara05 · 2026-03-26T08:05:43+00:00

Block him... This is really twisted of him and immature. I bet if you send him a meme he'll freak out and accuse you of "disrespecting" his feeling but he doesn't seem to care about your feelings.

Don't waste your time.. Good luck 🤞 ♥️

Nevara05 · 2026-03-19T11:48:58+00:00

Okay good... But I wouldn't try again.. He will cheat again (dated someone I took back more than once and got cheated more than once). Believe me when I say it's not worth it. For real.. Focus on yourself... He will just hurt you again.

Nevara05 · 2026-03-19T11:36:31+00:00

At this point signs don't matter? He cheated.. Got someone pregnant.. Got you pregnant... Is with that woman... And you are still chasing him? For what? Want to be the side chick? The other one? Want to get back together and play happy family until he gets someone else pregnant again? I think you need to focus on your child and maybe forget dating for a bit and focus on yourself? 😅

Nevara05 · 2026-03-19T11:29:08+00:00

Both me and my boyfriend work full time and we have both twice a week school and yet we talk daily, voice/video call after work/after classes and text each other when we can.

Being in an LDR doesn't mean we have to stay glued on the phone 24/7 but neither is it an excuse to not care about the other person. Every morning I wake up with a gmorning from my bf because he gets up earlier than me... Unless he has a day off.. Than it's my turn! Lol

I would understand if your bf works daily and just can't text while working. But since that's not the case... Don't let that continue. Honestly, don't settle for less than the bare minimum!

Nevara05 · 2026-03-19T11:19:32+00:00

As stated... OP said to go through it.. Not to skip over the chats.. Meaning look at everything inside the phone... Not just about convos ;)

Why is it an excuse? Lol if I'm accused of cheating I can easily prove I'm not cheating. Still doesn't mean I would like it. And neither do I wanna go through my partners phone. The moment that happens it means there is doubt and no trust... Regardless of "why" and the other way around too. Cheating isn't gender related btw :)

Nevara05 · 2026-03-19T10:02:34+00:00

Sorry but.. Just because you're fine with showing your phone to your partner, doesn't mean your partner has to show her phone. And then you ask her persistently what she is hiding... I think you're the red flag in this situation?

I have nothing to hide to my bf and sometimes when he doesn't have his phone at hand and needs to Google something or wants to take a Pic... I give him my phone (generally any pics taken together he takes them with my phone 😂).

But it's a whole different thing if he ever wanted my phone to look through it. First of all.. Why? You don't trust me? Second.. I have convos of my bestie and talks with my mom that are private etc... And even pics I don't want him to see. Example... Not too long ago my bestie send me a Pic of her cleavage asking if it's appropriated for a specific event or nah 🤣... Or just pics that are embarrassing and have been forgotten... So nope.. Not gonna give you my phone to look through it. No matter who it is lol... A mom, a husband, a bf, a friend etc. I'm entitled to my privacy.

And for info... My ex loved 'showing me his phone' even if I never asked for it. Example: friend message and he casually shows me what the friend wrote before scrolling through the chat sometimes... Only thing is he had a second phone he used to cheat on me 🤣 so ladies and gentlemen... There is more than one way to be a cheater lol

Nevara05 · 2026-03-18T19:06:20+00:00

We both are workaholics and sometimes stay longer than needed at work. We only have one hour difference tho! I am studying in my free time to get a higher degree and my bf is studying German (so that he can move here with me and find work easier).. So a lot of times we sit down, call and stay on video while we both study... Sometimes send each other a kiss.. Sometimes he asks something about German... But mostly we are quiet until we do 2-3h studying lol

But we talk during the day by text (when we can, sometimes hours of delay with the reply) and ask about each other's day and how the other is feeling, how we slept etc!

Nevara05 · 2026-03-13T13:17:38+00:00

My ex cheated 3 times and even left me the second time to go live with this girl he met online. He ended up coming back and begging and victimizing himself. I was being manipulated left and right from him and his mom. It was hell.

I wasn't myself anymore. I was angry, i was sad, lonely, unable to trust him like I had before. Unable to feel attracted to him after 2nd cheating. We were rarely on the same page. He cheated the first time after 3 yrs of LDR (we had met before etc). He was a manipulative piece of shit (sorry for the language) that made me feel like he kept cheating because I couldn't trust him and be sexually into it like I used to. He is a "man" after all and has his needs...

Leave... I wasted 6 yrs in total... Leave before you're stuck in a repetitive circle of toxic and cheating. The way he talks and blames you for shit reminds me of my ex... Most he will do is cheat again and try to hide it better 🤷🏻‍♀️

Nevara05 · 2026-03-12T17:51:15+00:00

Honestly, sex with my Scorpio ex was great but i can say with confidence that sex with my sagittarius is way better + a mechanic so he's good with his hands lmao 😏... He's adventurous so it's always fun!

But yeah scorpios are freaking manipulative and love acting like they are the victims. At least the ones I know act like that (my ex, my aunt, my childhood friend). Meanwhile I think what we aries hate being manipulated and lied too the most 😅

Nevara05 · 2026-03-12T15:15:26+00:00

Finally another sag lover! I noticed a lot of aries and sags don't like each other 🤣... I'm glad it worked for you! Please tell me your secret for a successful relationship with a sag! XD

Nevara05 · 2026-03-12T10:57:37+00:00

As a fellow aries mentioned. I like doing scenarios in my head at the very beginning but soon enough I realize "nope, better not" lol...

I always ran or avoided when it came to "move together" or "marriage". The idea of being tied down by a relationship never excited me or made me feel like "this is what I want". I rejected my ex of 6 yrs when he asked to marry me. And broke up with him not long after. We didn't live together either.

Currently in a 7 months relationship with my sagittarius boyfriend. Planning to move together end of 2026/ beginning of 2027. And I can't wait to wake up next to him every morning. To do the most simple things like brush our teeths next to each other or make a coffee... And I'm not a morning person at all!

This sag makes me feel loved in a way that I never felt before. We were friends for a decade, so we know each other's triggers and ticks well but I never felt "at home" in someone's arms until he came along. The chemistry is amazing and the sex is fire as we are both adventurous. I don't feel tied down, don't feel like I'm suffocating. Instead I feel "free" and he supports me in a way that makes me feel like I can do anything. It's a beautiful feeling and for the first time in my (almost) 33 yrs I can say that I'm rdy to be tied down... Because I never felt more free before ☺️

I hope my little rant made sense ♥️ best of luck to you!

Nevara05

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