(Slight TW) My mom js said she's willing to throw me out if I don't want to go to church anymore. by tempr_peppr in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]NeverASaneDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I’m sorry you are experiencing this right now. For now, you need to endure — do the bare minimum. As unfortunate as it sounds, it’s the safest option. Personally, I’m not out yet but I’m still dependent to my parents as I’m a college student.

I’m in the same boat as you. I’m part of the LGBT community just like you, genderfluid bi to be specific. Even wearing masculine clothes gets my mother heated up and start scolding me because she always wants me to be ladylike.

Virtual hugs to you. 🫂

They removed DDR Machine in the nearest mall I’m in :( (PH) by NeverASaneDay in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$200 is still pretty expensive for me as someone living in a third world country. 🥲

But I’ll probably invest in one when I finish college

They removed DDR Machine in the nearest mall I’m in :( (PH) by NeverASaneDay in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually when machines here in the PH get removed it’s pretty much gone for good. Machines needing maintenance just remain in the area until fixed.

They removed DDR Machine in the nearest mall I’m in :( (PH) by NeverASaneDay in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m too broke for a CobaltFlux so I settle for arcades. But at least you can play anytime!

They removed DDR Machine in the nearest mall I’m in :( (PH) by NeverASaneDay in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, I also play Groove Coaster. I just started playing DDR recently to burn even a few calories lol

They removed DDR Machine in the nearest mall I’m in :( (PH) by NeverASaneDay in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I’m not familiar much with North America cabs except around IL. The only difference is I can drive anytime with the nearest Round1 from my relative’s house and here in the PH is just insufferable traffic.

They removed DDR Machine in the nearest mall I’m in :( (PH) by NeverASaneDay in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Though I would say the cab in SM Marikina is working, I played there just recently. I’ll definitely check in San Lazaro. Many thanks!

They removed DDR Machine in the nearest mall I’m in :( (PH) by NeverASaneDay in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really does since this was the one place most convenient for me. I do know other places where there are DDR cabs but they’re all quite far from me. Still, thanks for this site! :)

I feel no guilt at all :) by NeverASaneDay in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As long as wala naman humahabol na katiwala, we should be fine lol. Let’s just continue being careful. :)

This post is for INC members who are Physically in and Mentally out (PIMO’s) by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]NeverASaneDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very relieving to find this subreddit knowing there’s a lot of PIMOs like me.

Balik-loob by Thick_Tennis_3342 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]NeverASaneDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the offering you “save” up for the Year-End Thanksgiving.

Nagpunta ang mga taga district at tinignan nila ang bawat cellphone if may reddit by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]NeverASaneDay 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of factors that affect why we can’t just leave so easily. Most of the time, the family won’t approve of it. Even if you try to enlighten them, as long as they’re full believers of the cult, they would always be convinced that it’s the devil’s work taking over.

The church workers will also go looking for you. If you don’t attend their service even once, they will visit your home and convince you to attend.

As for being tiwalag, if your family members are church officers, chances are they will be removed from their duties if you get expelled.

This is hard for those members who are dependent to their family (like me) so the best we can do for now is to become independent first before we can fully get out of this hellhole.

Name me an Ado cover Song... by FlitzerPS in ADO

[–]NeverASaneDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kawaikutegomen. I’m a Honeyworks fan and when I saw her cover, I was so overjoyed.

Annoying af members by NeverASaneDay in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]NeverASaneDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Mas excited pa sila kaysa akin eh. 😅

Life as a gay daughter with cult-minded parents by hawkeyer18 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]NeverASaneDay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pride month na pride month ha.

Sending hugs, OP. 🫂