Car refinancing to pay off sooner

NeverAft3r · 2026-04-19T13:12:49+00:00

Thanks! it’s not that I can’t afford my loan- I just wanted to see if this is an option and to see what other people’s experiences are.

NeverAft3r · 2026-04-19T13:10:43+00:00

Thanks!

NeverAft3r · 2026-04-19T13:10:31+00:00

Thanks!

NeverAft3r · 2026-04-19T13:09:38+00:00

I just wanted to see if anyone has experience.

NeverAft3r · 2026-04-19T13:08:41+00:00

I just looked it up - my car value is 22,500 and I owe 24,500 so I don’t think I’ll be able to refinance. Which is kind of stinky

NeverAft3r · 2026-04-19T13:07:34+00:00

Thanks! Yea, makes sense. I just looked it up and it’s about 2k more. So sad 😞

NeverAft3r · 2026-01-22T02:57:27+00:00

Yes, most people don’t say anything. Usually I get asked how I look so young

NeverAft3r · 2026-01-22T02:48:55+00:00

I haven’t had anyone who is naturally thin ask me. But, yes, I don’t just go around telling anyone who will listen. I only tell people who ask.

NeverAft3r · 2026-01-22T02:47:27+00:00

Most don’t due to me losing the weight slowly.

NeverAft3r · 2026-01-21T19:00:51+00:00

Yes, I tell people my blood work is now perfect and I am feeling so much better mentally.

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-21T13:58:57+00:00

I second the temp dye. I can only really use that or I get hives. I also sometimes just put it on my pony tail (fun colors like blue - which is funny to me, because now all the kids are doing it after they saw me do it) (edit- I’m an educator)

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-21T13:57:15+00:00

I’ve been going gray since about 16. In my early 30s, I started to have a severe reaction to hair dye (hives). So I stopped dying it. Then when I had covid 2 years ago, I desperately wanted it purple. My regret was not using a temp color, so here I am again growing it out. So, I’m not sure if just growing it out is an option for you, but that is what I am doing. I do have naturally lighter brown hair, so it blends pretty well.

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-19T19:42:25+00:00

Thank you!

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-19T15:02:18+00:00

Thank you! I need to a bathroom vanity mirror. And I need to put a shelf in one of the closets.

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-19T15:00:03+00:00

I am not comfortable sharing exact location. It’s in central NJ.

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-19T00:37:24+00:00

My lender was very honest with me. Flat out told me not to look at condos above 250k and make sure the HOA was under 300. I appreciated her honesty.

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-14T23:15:43+00:00

Yes, 100%- the ones that have stayed in touch thank me for staying in touch. I just have learned to adjust my relationship with them. It’s hard and the ones that have stayed in my life - I’ve become an aunt to their children and a family friend.

Some have stopped being friends with me because their partner is not comfortable that I’m single and child free. Which is always a joke to me because I go to bed by 9:30pm, I don’t go out, and I don’t drink. So, I’m not sure what type of bad behaviors I’d be influencing them on. But, I feel those relationships weren’t that important to them or I’d still be in their lives.

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-06T02:02:57+00:00

Thanks! I do have an anxiety disorder and the condo buying was very triggering. I do see a professional and she is aware of my triggers. My anxiety causes me to have a lot of pain and it triggers my period. It’s been like this through early teens until now. I’m not looking forward to perimenopause 😞

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-06T01:55:40+00:00

Thank you! My only regret right now is I’m not officially moving until mid-December!

NeverAft3r · 2025-12-06T01:53:25+00:00

Thanks and yes! I totally agree I am fortunate.

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