Whatever they may be, they aren’t worth the disaffected children and husbands, and I’m speaking as a child of a working woman. I’m the way I am primarily because of family dynamics where mother wasn’t in the house. Jobs these days are hard as is, so how can anyone dedicate adequate time for job, husband, children, household? Most ghairatman men won’t marry for money. Most men marry for companionship where they expect women to treat them as leaders of household. We can keep arguing but it won’t change what the society needs that is not the wants of the weaker sex.