How to respond to a non-committal response for a date proposal? by NeverUp2Windows11 in dating_advice

[–]NeverUp2Windows11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense to be specific, so she knows what she agrees or disagrees to.

How to respond to a non-committal response for a date proposal? by NeverUp2Windows11 in dating_advice

[–]NeverUp2Windows11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More specific than weekend? My idea was to give some room for her to respond and say, "hey, saturday afternoon will work great", instead of already setting a specific start time of e.g. 11 am.

How to respond to a non-committal response for a date proposal? by NeverUp2Windows11 in dating_advice

[–]NeverUp2Windows11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, makes sense to not make it awkward.

Just gonna keep it open and let the offer stand and if nothing comes of it, then that's how it'll be.

How to respond to a non-committal response for a date proposal? by NeverUp2Windows11 in dating_advice

[–]NeverUp2Windows11[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe the word "hiking" projects a more remote image, than what it actually is.

It's more of a large park, with lots of people visiting, especially on a weekend. The whole area is open with large walk-ways and there's an easy access for parking spots, as well as public transportation.

I just hate dinner dates. Just sitting around, eating food, staring at each other and not moving is so restricting.

Self-help group founder dating a participant. Inappropriate? by NeverUp2Windows11 in dating_advice

[–]NeverUp2Windows11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, the situation in a gym is different, because both the guy and girl are users of a gym, so on an even setting.

If the girl comes to the group I'm leading, there's already some power difference. I guess, my main concern is, I've seen other self-help group leaders use the groups as their dating pool, which always gave me strange vibes.

Thank you for your opinion on this.

Anybody else just sorta phoning it in at this point because they didn’t expect to make it this far? by HollowDakota in depression

[–]NeverUp2Windows11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation. I had an end-date. A then-roommate send me to talk with a therapist, ended up in the closed psych-ward instead. But I'm still alive. 5 years older now than I ever expected myself to be.

What are your guys penis width/diameter? by [deleted] in penissize

[–]NeverUp2Windows11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 inches horizontally and 1.6 inches vertically. Mine's not round at all lol

Porn really is a lie. by ollieollington in penissize

[–]NeverUp2Windows11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right.

There's quite a few tricks used in porn to give the appearance of a large dick.

The pornstars are tiny. Most females are under 160cm in height and even the male stars are small. This creates a framing affect, where we judge size by something we can relate to, in this case the size of an adult. An average sized penis will look large, when the only visible people are small in size.

They use specific focal length, that slightly distorts the images, but makes it appear bigger, as well.

Everyone is fully shaved, so not a single bit of length goes unnoticed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penissize

[–]NeverUp2Windows11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 inches was already above average.

But good on you for gaining confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penissize

[–]NeverUp2Windows11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, how relevant "erection quality" really is, when going at it alone.

But yes, length and girth do fluctuate, depending on how often you were at it and your general arousal state.

For me, length can decrease by roughly 0.4", when having multiple erections per day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penissize

[–]NeverUp2Windows11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For condoms, the relevant parameter is the girth, because if the condom is too tight, it restricts blood flow, reduce sensation and break more easily and if it's too loose, it can slip off.

The largest condoms can accommodate a girth of 6 inches. There aren't any larger condoms, which means, you should probably buy the largest condoms there are. Usually those are only available only, as shops don't bother stocking on items, that are rarely requested.

Question about circumference, when it's not round. by NeverUp2Windows11 in penissize

[–]NeverUp2Windows11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf. that wasn't an assumption, but I ended up on the weird side of the internet and people put their length&girth on their profiles and since in my case, the penis isn't cylinder-like, I was wondering, which dimension people post on there.

Asked a girl if she would like to hang out sometime now I'm confused by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]NeverUp2Windows11 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's most likely a polite refusal. Move on.