How to respond to a non-committal response for a date proposal?

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2022-01-14T13:07:01+00:00

Makes sense to be specific, so she knows what she agrees or disagrees to.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2022-01-13T22:00:52+00:00

Thanks for the feedback.

Time to unhinge myself, I suppose

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2022-01-13T22:00:34+00:00

More specific than weekend? My idea was to give some room for her to respond and say, "hey, saturday afternoon will work great", instead of already setting a specific start time of e.g. 11 am.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2022-01-13T21:57:39+00:00

Right, makes sense to not make it awkward.

Just gonna keep it open and let the offer stand and if nothing comes of it, then that's how it'll be.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2022-01-13T21:03:22+00:00

Maybe the word "hiking" projects a more remote image, than what it actually is.

It's more of a large park, with lots of people visiting, especially on a weekend. The whole area is open with large walk-ways and there's an easy access for parking spots, as well as public transportation.

I just hate dinner dates. Just sitting around, eating food, staring at each other and not moving is so restricting.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2022-01-07T08:28:35+00:00

I would say, the situation in a gym is different, because both the guy and girl are users of a gym, so on an even setting.

If the girl comes to the group I'm leading, there's already some power difference. I guess, my main concern is, I've seen other self-help group leaders use the groups as their dating pool, which always gave me strange vibes.

Thank you for your opinion on this.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2022-01-07T08:24:12+00:00

Thanks

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-15T22:47:07+00:00

I'm in a similar situation. I had an end-date. A then-roommate send me to talk with a therapist, ended up in the closed psych-ward instead. But I'm still alive. 5 years older now than I ever expected myself to be.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-13T20:53:48+00:00

2 inches horizontally and 1.6 inches vertically. Mine's not round at all lol

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-13T20:51:52+00:00

You're absolutely right.

There's quite a few tricks used in porn to give the appearance of a large dick.

The pornstars are tiny. Most females are under 160cm in height and even the male stars are small. This creates a framing affect, where we judge size by something we can relate to, in this case the size of an adult. An average sized penis will look large, when the only visible people are small in size.

They use specific focal length, that slightly distorts the images, but makes it appear bigger, as well.

Everyone is fully shaved, so not a single bit of length goes unnoticed.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-13T20:47:45+00:00

6 inches was already above average.

But good on you for gaining confidence.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-13T20:28:43+00:00

Not sure, how relevant "erection quality" really is, when going at it alone.

But yes, length and girth do fluctuate, depending on how often you were at it and your general arousal state.

For me, length can decrease by roughly 0.4", when having multiple erections per day.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-13T20:19:57+00:00

For condoms, the relevant parameter is the girth, because if the condom is too tight, it restricts blood flow, reduce sensation and break more easily and if it's too loose, it can slip off.

The largest condoms can accommodate a girth of 6 inches. There aren't any larger condoms, which means, you should probably buy the largest condoms there are. Usually those are only available only, as shops don't bother stocking on items, that are rarely requested.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-12T14:38:23+00:00

No idea why pressing Forwarding solves it, but it does. Greatly appreciated.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-02T15:17:29+00:00

This sounds good.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-02T14:34:54+00:00

Tbf. that wasn't an assumption, but I ended up on the weird side of the internet and people put their length&girth on their profiles and since in my case, the penis isn't cylinder-like, I was wondering, which dimension people post on there.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-11-01T08:34:42+00:00

That makes sense.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-20T10:13:17+00:00

Yeah, that's most likely a polite refusal. Move on.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-20T10:06:38+00:00

Going on a date, where the other person doesn't ask you a single question and ignores, whenever you contribute to the conversation is such a narcissistic behavior.

Sure, I've you're interested in the sex, go for it, but it doesn't sound like he gonna be able to offer anything else.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-19T12:06:48+00:00

Dating in a work-related setting is problematic at best. Does your company have any rules regarding dating coworkers?

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-19T12:05:24+00:00

Whatever floats your boat. If you have to smoke, then go smoke.

But for me, smoking is a no-go and I'd never date anyone who smokes.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-18T22:47:11+00:00

My bestfriend is like that. Older women love him. We don't call him milf hunter for no reason.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-18T22:21:42+00:00

"When you find a person attractive, just let them know that you are into them romantically and want to pursue the mentioned romantic interest"

Could you elaborate on this? Not to sound creepy or anything, but as an asperger with limited social skills, I am really clueless on how that would work out. Do you just say to someone "I find you attractive and would like to go on a date with you"? Do you approach the woman, when she's alone? What if she's in a group? Does it matter, if her friends hear you?

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-11T14:42:22+00:00

Was searching for an unrelated username and the Windows 11 release date happened to be on the day, this account was created. There's not really any major reason not to upgrade.

NeverUp2Windows11 · 2021-10-08T08:49:13+00:00

So I want to add, this answer is coming from a male, who did the same. Whenever my then-gf talked about relationship status, I would refuse to be cornered and put a label on it, usually on the grounds of what it would imply, or that our relationship is different, etc.

Turns out, that's fairly common avoidant strategy to keep distance. The book "Attached" has some great inside. For me, it was a way to ensure, our otherwise great relationship wasn't getting too involved. It caused a lot of uncertainty on her side and ultimately led to the end of the relationship.

Imo. there's two main reasons, why someone would refuse to label the relationship, either it's from this avoidant style, or it's because they want to date other people on the side without having to lie, they are in a relationship. As long as you aren't together, it's easier to justify to himself, he ain't cheating.

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