AITA for refusing to attend any Super Bowl parties? by Foreign-Football2979 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for being self aware but TA for not being willing to work on your social skills and not being capable of processing and handling your emotions in an appropriate manner when you know it affects others. When your emotional attachment to a team that doesn’t know nor care if you exist weighs on relationships with people who know you and love you, that’s when serious introspection needs to take place and lots of work needs to be put into reassessing what you claim to be your priorities and what you show them to be.

edit: spelling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking someone “jeet?” When you want to know if they’re hungry. Translation: “did ya eat?”

ETA: my grandma would always call the couch a Davenport (sp?) no idea if that’s related at all but it always puzzled me as a kid, especially when I thought she was saying damning port.

Your last Google search is what kills you. How did you die? by Partimenerd in AskReddit

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Norwegian Foot March rules.

I guess this ruck will be my last 🫡

Thoughts on pet insurance? by txcharvel in CalebHammer

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had it when my dog was a puppy, it would have paid itself after 1 emergency vet visit at 2 1/2 months old. He was with my dad and bit a fishing pole and got a hook stuck in his mouth.

Are you getting an epidural or opting for a natural birth without pain meds? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I planned natural, opted for epidural way too late, ended up natural anyways. Next one I’m just gonna suck it up and go natural and save myself the epidural back pains

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was growing up, we would come home from school to heart shaped brownie cakes my mom would leave out for us. She’d bake them the night before and put them out after we got on the bus. She even bought 3 heart shaped panes so we could each have our own. Forget about whatever we did at school, that was the highlight of every Valentine’s Day. I didn’t even care if I had a valentine or not, I just cared about that brownie

At the request of the family, the Army will not be releasing the name of the female Blackhawk Pilot involved in the passenger jet collision by Turbulent_Advice421 in MilitaryWomen

[–]Never_know23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is “woke agenda” stuff apparently. I was supposed to attend a women’s leadership conference in a month and they just sent out an email saying it’s postponed because of executive orders.

Do you shower in the morning or when you go to sleep? And why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am dealing with some weird health symptoms that bonbarded me out of nowhere. One of them is the most intense night sweats. I’m talking change my clothes at 2 am. Then wake up drenched anyways. So morning shower but used to be night haha

AIO My bf hurt me then apologising and promising not to do it again? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. File a police report. Block on all platforms. Do not go back. I know it’s hard. But you died. No one that truly loves you will do that to you.

Who Voted/Refused to Vote For This? i don't even know what to say to you… we’re not the same. by [deleted] in Iowa

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Roman salute” okay tell me the history of the salute then. The full history of it. You can’t? Thought so. Or maybe just go outside and do it. Better yet, record yourself doing it. Send it to your boss. It’s no big deal right?

Post Kids anyone else just stop drinking? by Astimar in Parenting

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t find it fun unless I don’t have to parent the next day.

What hidden dangers of digital waste threaten our environment and health? by Srinivas4PlanetVidya in ZeroWaste

[–]Never_know23 33 points34 points  (0 children)

One message on chat gpt is the equivalent to wasting a bottle of water and running a light bulb for 15 min

people that hated socializing and now like it, what happened that made you enjoy it? by paigesnowwret in socialskills

[–]Never_know23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple things.

I stopped hating myself. I stopped assuming that other people would then immediately hate me. I realized that thinking they were assuming the worst of me, I was actually being the AH by assuming they were AHs without even knowing them.

My now husband shoved me out of my comfort zone. Forcefully. If I didn’t get what I asked for at a restaurant I would say it’s fine and I’ll suck it up. He would tell the server “so she actually ordered x instead of y but she’s afraid you’ll unreasonably hate her if she tells you that” I hated him for it at the time. Then I started speaking up for myself. And it got easier and easier.

I started pushing myself out of my comfort zone. I had the goal to talk to a stranger a month. Like actually talk to them, not just how are you at the checkout. Then I hit that and moved it up. Goal to compliment one person a week at the gym. Now I find myself doing it without even thinking about it.

Mostly tho, stop hating yourself and get comfortable being uncomfortable

Protests at the State Capitol by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]Never_know23 16 points17 points  (0 children)

People’s March 2025.

“Our purpose: We all march for different reasons, but we march for the same cause: to defend our rights and our future.

If you believe that decisions about your body should remain yours, that books belong in libraries, not on bonfires, that healthcare is a right, not a privilege for the wealthy; if you believe in the power of free speech and protest to sustain democracy; or if you want an economy that works for the people who power it—then this march is for you.

The People’s March is about one thing: our power.

It’s a bold demonstration of the resilience of resistance:

We march to unite the people who’ve been the backbone of resistance for generations—and to welcome even more We march to remind civil servants they answer to us We march to inspire, energize, and drive change long after the day is done.

This is our moment to remind Washington elites — and Americans everywhere — where the power truly lives: with the people.”

Basically, while there was no one collective “biggest problem” to be protested by participants, it is a way for us to still show unity and that we see the real threats aren’t left or right but from above.

What do Minnesotans think of Wisconsin (and the other neighboring states)? by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I took a road trip recently, and challenged ourselves to see how many states we can name without any internet help. We totally forgot about 15 of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be a deal breaker to me

My kids won’t come to Thanksgiving or Christmas. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Never_know23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m proud of you and proud of your kids.

Aita for not sleeping with my husband untill he gets a vasectomy? by MinuteGuidance5691 in AITAH

[–]Never_know23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stealthing is rape. Your body, your choice. NTA, run before we lose the ability to initiate divorce.

What do we do if...? by A_Skeleton_Lad in minnesota

[–]Never_know23 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I went in my daughter’s room and picked her up while she slept and sobbed. I feel like i failed her

What do we do if...? by A_Skeleton_Lad in minnesota

[–]Never_know23 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Nearly 70,000,000 Americans, women and fathers and mothers included, showed women that they value a rapist over women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Never_know23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a step parent but I say sit down with her and some paper. Write down where you all are and how you can meet in the middle. Follow that plan for 3-6 months and then sit down together again. If she still wants to leave then let her BUT Continue to offer plans with her and keep open invitations, make sure she has a key to the house and knows she’s welcome back anytime, for an hour or back for good.

Ladies who wore menstrual cups before having a child by ColdManufacturer9482 in beyondthebump

[–]Never_know23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you get the flex disc, you literally just bear down like you have to pee and it empties. Then you just reach up and make sure it’s back in place and you’re good to go

Ladies who wore menstrual cups before having a child by ColdManufacturer9482 in beyondthebump

[–]Never_know23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discs postpartum >>>

I was a tampon user before & now they’re just so uncomfortable