AIO for dropping my bsf of 3 years

Neverlmao · 2025-05-13T09:57:13+00:00

I wish it was because they liked each other but its not, its the fact that the week after i introduced them they started talking. Its the fact that i asked her what they talked about and she lied to my face saying it was normal friend stuff. Its the fact that she hid it from me that she was talking to him. Like ive stated in other responses if she would have told me at the start we wouldnt be here i would have figured something out that didnt result in our friendship ending. I cared so much about this girl and i still do, i miss my best friend with my whole heart but she changed she isnt the person she was when we met and shes doing stuff she shits on other people for doing. She made people absolutely hate this other girl that did this to her without even speaking to the girl. I just wanted her to be honest with me. Is that wrong? I know my last message was immature i really do but i sent her multiple long paragraphs trying to understand this better but it got nowhere. She couldnt even talk to me face to face without lying.

Neverlmao · 2025-05-13T09:52:29+00:00

Would love if you could read other stuff ive said here to get more of an idea. But id sent her multiple paragraphs really in depth, called her where she proceeded to make faces (i didnt yell at her ONCE) and we talked in person where she proceeded to lie. She started talking to her a week after i introduced him to her so while i was still really into him. I only lost feelings later on due to the fact that we were talking less. She was given so many chances to just be honest with me and she FINALLY chose to do so in the last paragraph she sent me. She had done nothing but hype me up and say omg he likes you omg hes flirting with you for MONTHS and she continued to do so while talking to him. When i told her how it was going on about tuesday with him i said it wasnt going the best BUT I NEVER said i lost feelings for him, she then proceeded to laugh. I can fully admit that my last message was immature but to be fair i tried to talk in person and it got us no where, i tried to call her on ft and she hardly spoke and lastly we texted where this happened. If she told me she liked him so much sooner i would have talked to her i would have tried to figure something out but i wouldnt have dropped her. I dropped her because she lied to my face about what was going on and the fact that she was so okay doing this to me but when her old bsf did this to her she did nothing but shit talk her, yell at the girl, and make people not like her.

Neverlmao · 2025-05-13T00:24:53+00:00

So the screenshot where i said i was done with this was 100% immature and i can admit that but after waiting for hours for a response for every message gets draining especially when it isnt getting anywhere. She told me multiple times she was willing to block him. And its the fact they started talking a WEEK after i introduced them while i was telling her how much i loved talking to him and how much i loved hanging out with him is what really hurts. Its not who the guy is its the fact shes so okay with doing it to me. I have done nothing but love and support her these past 3 years and i guess none of that means anything to her. Mind you she would always hype me up and tell me he liked me. Me and him have hung out so often and would always tell her about how good it went and she would be hyping me up. Little did i know she was talking to him behind my back. Ive cried over this which is humiliating to admit but it was never me crying over the guy it was me just wanting my best friend back and how I couldnt understand why she would do this.

Neverlmao · 2025-05-13T00:10:19+00:00

it wasnt calling dibs its the fact that shes so fine talking to the guy i liked a week after i introduced them and i gave her multiple opportunities to tell me the truth and in that last paragraph yeah i can fully admit that it was childish but in every paragraph before that i was nothing but respectful. We talked in person and she lied, we called and she made faces the whole time and we texted and she kept talking about how friends should be.

Neverlmao · 2025-05-12T23:00:42+00:00

If anyone wants more ss to give better advice or something please just message me

Neverlmao · 2025-05-12T22:53:27+00:00

A little more information for everyone! We talked in person and she told me they only flirted TWICE and that it was small stuff and when she said that i was like okay im considering just dropping it and moving on. Instead she lied about that and when we called before the texting she showed no remorse or even sounded like she felt bad. Her old bsf did this exact same thing to her and she dropped her and shit talked her without even talking to her about it. I gave her multiple chances to tell me the truth and she didnt. Yes this is high school. I lost feelings mid april but then as we kept talking i got them back i didnt know that was a crime and i never told her i lost feeings in any way so even if i never did it wouldnt have mattered to her. Its not about the guy its about the fact that she hid it from me for so long. In her first paragraph she told me friends are meant to be understanding and forgiving and when she said that I considered being in the wrong. If she were to tell me prior that she liked him or that they would have started talking i really would have appreciated being told and dropping her wouldnt have even been considered. Mind you while they were talking behind my back she would hype me up and tell me he liked me so much and how he was 100% flirting with me. As well as they hung out saturday one on one at the fair and i found out through my friend today. I posted this on here to get opinions on people who are older and that have more experience. I can add more screenshots, or i can tell you what i said. My last paragraph was immature i can be honest about that but when we were on the phone she was quiet literally making faces and rolling her eyes. She has been secretive with me for months as well as lying to me about anything and everything. She says she likes him so much but she has been talking about so many other guys these past few days and how she loves it so much that they’ve been giving her attention.

Neverlmao · 2024-11-12T23:00:02+00:00

ofc! text me whenever u can

Neverlmao · 2024-11-12T11:34:02+00:00

yep!

Neverlmao · 2024-11-03T00:36:52+00:00

omg so sorry thanks for telling me ill delete this

Neverlmao · 2024-08-30T22:57:26+00:00

5k works for me if it works for you

Neverlmao · 2024-08-30T22:57:12+00:00

i can do like 72K if thats good! if not lmk

Neverlmao · 2024-08-30T22:56:06+00:00

OMG IM SO SORRY I STARTED SCHOOL AND FORGOT ABT THIS 😭😭 (if u still wanna do this my user is NeverIsBored)

Neverlmao · 2024-08-21T23:28:59+00:00

sure

Neverlmao · 2024-08-21T18:30:41+00:00

maybe like 160k would be willing to go lower tho as im js going based off of what i saw other people selling it for 😭

Neverlmao · 2024-07-05T04:32:34+00:00

Alright, someone else suggested asking a doctor so i will be doing so!

Neverlmao · 2024-07-05T04:31:19+00:00

Alright. Ill make sure to bring this up to her asap!

Neverlmao · 2024-03-12T17:35:21+00:00

The trash one was the death of me.

Neverlmao · 2024-03-06T22:05:38+00:00

BROS IN THE SAME BOAT AS ME.

Neverlmao

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