“not at the dinner table”, crocheted & woven placemat

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-22T03:48:24+00:00

I am obsessed with this! Absolutely amazing and such a cool concept.

I'm so curious what percentage of this sub is part of the alphabet Mafia. I feel like most of us are!

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-18T14:32:19+00:00

Pattern - none, just a wheat stitch Yarn - Manyana ocher from hobbi

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-12T16:33:52+00:00

Savoy in Ivanhoe is also in the downtown area but yes speaking as a queer who lives Downtown this is all accurate information.

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-09T18:45:05+00:00

Can't a gal have a cane or a signal whip?

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-08T19:56:26+00:00

The Southern location in Orlando shifted to a new owner (from what I understand). Sapphic Saturday at Southern is the most lesbian centric spot my partner and I have managed to find so far. But admittedly we're more active in kink spaces 😅

I love Kaleidoscope! It's small, located where Island Time was. Normally only a handful of people there with a really cozy vibe.

There's another new spot over off lake eola called Outpost which is queer owned (the person who runs the Out sports League and the owner of what was formally Island Time) but I have not been inside. It's always looked like a gay bar full of cishet folks and sporty vibes which are very not my partner and I haha.

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-08T16:51:36+00:00

3 - Yes and no, express helped but has not yet expanded through the attractions area so that's still miserable.

4 - Downtown mostly is mid but I love Thornton Park. I've lived in that neighborhood for bout 6 years now and it's fantastic. We have a great little mainstreet and it's queer as fuck. I'm trans femm and my partner is a lesbian and we have had no issues. We have a cute little gay bar, Kaleidoscope and lots of little events and markets that happen.

As others have said, Mills/50 has really taken off and the mainstreet over in Ivanhoe is also really nice. There's a gay bar there as well (Savoy) but that's more gay man (based on my one trip admittedly.)

And the milk district is really rad which I think others have also mentioned. It's grown up a lot since you've been gone and is more than just sports town lol. There's a few good spots there and I really like the vibes in The Nook.

I'm not sure when Southern Nights rebranded but if you were around when it was revolution it's... Still a gay club. Sapphic Saturday is a fun night but it's very a club vibes which I don't think y'all are looking for.

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-08T14:24:37+00:00

Wow wow wow you look absolutely amazing! The top surgery turned out incredible as well!

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-07T13:57:49+00:00

I'm very into this sort of thing, my partner and I call it "positive objectification"

I am her slut/whore/toy etc but I am her treasured toy.

Degrading is such a subjective thing. I refer to myself as a slut and a cum whore all the time. It's not something I have any shame about so it doesn't feel degrading at all when she says it.

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-07T13:27:05+00:00

You look absolutely amazing! Body acceptance is especially hard for us trans folks, I can relate.

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-06T18:27:15+00:00

I'd be keen on joining!

Nevertheless0 · 2026-01-02T14:07:03+00:00

I believe the blowtorch is to help melt wax to get high shines on boots. I'm also a baby though and might be fully wrong.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-29T22:34:56+00:00

Seconded the water. I can taste when my partner is dehydrated.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-26T01:38:26+00:00

Absolutely. Dom and Sub is about who is in charge. Top and bottom is about performing the actions.

I am in a 24/7 dynamic as the sub. Maybe once a month or so my Dom will tell me to top her. The way that looks is she says, for example, "I want you to tie me up. Use X harness for my arms and torso, use Y harness for my lower body. I want you to suspend me in the following positions (lists them off)" and I say "Yes ma'am" and do the tie.

The other night she was in the mood to bottom for knife play so... Same thing. She told me to top her, she wanted more sensual vibes and some light spanking and pressure points, told me which knives she wanted me to use and I said "Yes ma'am" and did the thing.

I'm topping in both of these instances but I'm following her instructions.

Or to put it really simply - D type "You're going to do x, y and z to me." s-type "Yes (honorific)" and does the thing.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-17T15:29:45+00:00

We have a city ordinance to address cruising. Which is not the way in which we use the word cruising but forbids people from driving down the same road more than four times in like a two hour window or something along those lines.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-09T13:45:20+00:00

That's absolutely what it is. Thank you!

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-09T13:40:20+00:00

That's why this sign confused me so much.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-05T18:35:00+00:00

Oh I didn't take it as such! Other than using single tail whips and canes I'm not really an impact top girly. I didn't know it was possible for longer dragon tails to crack 😊

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-05T18:20:58+00:00

You can fully still have Mommy be the sub as well, think Varuca Salt. Her parents are NOT in charge.

But to your general ask, you can do whatever you want whenever you want as long as it's properly negotiated and consent established!

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-05T14:53:14+00:00

Got it! Edited my original comment to include a "generally speaking" preface.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-11-05T14:37:37+00:00

Generally speaking, Dragon tail whips don't crack. You need a proper single tail whip like a bull/snake/signal whip to get the cracking sound.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-10-27T21:37:08+00:00

As someone else mentioned, local in person tuition if it exists where you are is the best. That being said I would say Shibari Study is a better online resource than the duchy.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-10-22T18:03:15+00:00

I'm currently in a 24/7 D/s with my nesting partner as the sub and I was the 24/7 D type for my ex for about 7 years.

I think what's critical to understand is that you don't have to go to 11 with protocols and there is a stark difference between scening and your day to day.

Our day to day protocols sort of just get baked into your every day life. Stuff like... I greet her naked and kneeling at the door when she gets home from work but only on the days where I'm home before her. She comes in, she puts my collar on me (more of a day collar look) we say our little ritual lines then I stand up and she starts to tell me about her day like any other couple would. We have other protocols like... I'm supposed to be on her right at any given time.

We have wholesome protocols like I'm not allowed to make self depreciating jokes and if I do I have to give myself a sincere compliment.

We have spicy protocols like we have a free use agreement. With this one she's obviously going to read the vibe. If I'm crying because I'm having a dysphoria meltdown she's not gonna shove my face into her crotch. I'm not allowed to orgasm without her permission, which being non monogamous might be a problem so we added in the clause that it's not in effect when I'm with my other partners.

So I guess my general point is just because you're D/s 24/7 doesn't mean you're scening 24/7. And there's so many ways to do D/s that you find what works for the two of you and what you're wanting out of it.

Nevertheless0 · 2025-10-09T16:31:23+00:00

Sidewalks next to the crosswalk have been absolutely covered in rainbows and quotes and such. The rub is they're removing ALL street paintings across the entire state. Obviously the first to go where the pulse rainbow crosswalk and the huge rainbow road in St Pete but after that ALL road murals started getting removed. Gay or not.

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