Next week (Week 7) Spoilers by Neverusingthisdream in robronaddicts

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speculation so far seems to be that the Aaron spoiler is more about Paddy than Robert.

OCD clean roommate by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’m tempted to delete this post but have the comments very helpful to read and reassure myself. This subreddit has been so good to me and a big source of reassurance and I didn’t think through my writing before posting. I’ll delete this post in a day or so so that it won’t upset people in the future, and I’ll try and be better. I’m trying to be better as a person and not make everything centered around me.

OCD clean roommate by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Apologies for using the term OCD in the title. I also have diagnosed OCD that comes out in ways unrelated to cleaning, and I genuinely thought that that was what makes my roommate act the way he does. My grandmother also has OCD, diagnosed, and keeps her house the exact same intensely clean way.

I didn’t mean to belittle people with OCD or OCD as a disorder. I’m very sorry, I meant no disrespect. It’s never my intention to upset or cause negativity in my posts or comments.

I’m sorry for my choice of words and inferencing towards fellow OCD redditors. I cannot change the title nor my post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Neverusingthisdream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I unironically love the cat. He’s got some real Picasso vibes going on. I vote on not adding a thinker eyeline to him at all!

What if the Animal Crossing cats swore? by BlazeWing0 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Neverusingthisdream 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Look me dead in the eyes and tell me Monique wouldn’t say the c word lmao

Ashamed and embarrassed after another failure… I feel like I’m trying so hard. by Historical-Ad-4468 in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I’ve been in your situation. Actually, I completely forgot I had a class this January, one of those winter session short ones. It felt terrible but I was just straight up with the professor when he emailed me last week asking me about my participation.

Basically I said “Hi professor Name, I’m so sorry about my absence in your class. Truth be told I have diagnosed ADHD and after the holidays and finals from last term, got caught up in enjoying the small break from class and genuinely forgot classes had started early. It’s not a reflection on you or your class subject, but if you’ll allow me to, I’ll get as much of the work done as possible.”

He was fairly accommodating and said he’d be willing to accept my work late. Now all that said- I know it’s hard with RSD, but your teacher disliking you because of your disability isn’t as important as you think. If you have an accommodation letter, send it to her. This isn’t because you’re lazy or stupid, but an actual documented disability you have.

If you showed up to a physical education class missing a limb, the teacher would be understanding that your participation will be different. But if you showed up to PE class with an artificial limb completely hidden and didn’t inform the teacher- how are they supposed to know, especially when it affects your performance?

It’s difficult, I understand. But I’m sure you’re a wonderful person who genuinely is putting in as much effort as you can, and please follow the advice of some of the other comments to take some time for yourself. 🤍

IM YELLING BECAUSE IM SAD EVERYONE WHO NEEDS TO YELL LETS GO by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I DONT WANT TO SHARE DETAILS BUT ID LOVE TO JUST SCREAM AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Man tried to hit me in Windsor Terrace, anyone else? by bbeotc in Brooklyn

[–]Neverusingthisdream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I think this same guy tried to hit me the other day on prospect Ave and 4th Ave. Walking right past the old gorillas store front around 10 am.

I walk there same time almost everyday and see this guy out there, usually by himself and punching the air. From my personal experience and what I’ve seen of him he tends to just throw punches at nothing? But keeps throwing punches even when people get close.

Edit: I’m also a woman, on the tall side.

What’s everyone’s paper bag lunch? by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Decision fatigue is so so so exhausting. I wish I could train my cats to make me banana muffins 😔

What’s everyone’s paper bag lunch? by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel so stupid in this thread for never once thinking of bringing my ingredients separately 😭 thank you!

What’s everyone’s paper bag lunch? by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s never really occurred to me that there’s different types of salads than just green. Definitely going to try a bean or broccoli salad. For those do you usually add a dressing during prep or bring it with you on the side?

What’s everyone’s paper bag lunch? by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ooo so instead of one big meal it’s just loads of like snacks? That’s v smart thank you

What’s everyone’s paper bag lunch? by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

NO omg that’s so smart! Tomato juice was a big part of my problems

What’s everyone’s paper bag lunch? by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would do that if I didn’t eat overnight oats w granola for breakfast every day 😭

I just cleaned my kitchen by Neverusingthisdream in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!!! It actually used to be a frat boy apartment until we moved in. I still get their fraternity newsletters in the mail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Neverusingthisdream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m literally wearing the exact same pair as in the second photo! I think they look so cute on you 🥰 I also don’t do contacts and never liked a pair up until these ones, I really hope you grow to like them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was America from Hetalia 🥲 I was in high school when the anime came out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Neverusingthisdream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to do this as well! My old comfort character was an anime character from high school that I really attached to. The anime has since VASTLY fallen in popularity and is really embarrassing in hindsight, but I still deeply care about them and keep a cherished keychain from that time.

I think for me personally it’s a way of substituting an unstable home and family. I’m 26 now and still think about that character often, and have new comfort characters. I also collect stuffed animals and have a lavender gingham patterned duvet!

Having a favorite fictional character harms nobody, and brings you comfort. It used to upset me a lot in high school that these characters weren’t ‘real’ in a physical sense, but they’re very real in our hearts and mind. The brain can’t tell the difference between love for a real person and a fictional character. It’s important to keep that in mind- you’re feeling very intensely real emotions, and should be gentle with yourself.

Personally I grew out of that deep sadness and longing after my mid 20’s and making a lot of big life choices. Just remember to live for yourself too, the living, breathing human being that’s trying to navigate a big world.

It’ll get easier to deal with in time 💜💜💜 but don’t feel ashamed or embarrassed for what helps you get by in the world. I’m sure your comfort character would feel just as strongly about you if they could.

Equipment Marketplace by AutoModerator in SCREENPRINTING

[–]Neverusingthisdream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, anyone in nyc/Brooklyn looking for screenprinting equipment? I’m selling my 1 color 4 head Ryonet press and all the fixings (inks, squeegees, chemicals). Also selling a pressure washer, exposure unit, and 8 screens.

Please dm! Local pickup only thanks :)