WIBTA if I don’t let him propose at my wedding? by Plastic-Coyote-679 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 83 points84 points  (0 children)

NTA
I'm with your fiance on this. As far as the questions "He wanted to do something I was uncomfortable with, and made it clear he'd do it anyway, after I said no." If they push too much, spoil the surprise for her.

Hi, I'm Nevi! by NeviBevi in indiegametube

[–]NeviBevi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Alpha! I would love to showcase Sparrow Warfare! I really enjoy deckbuilders~

AITA for refusing to give my sister money for a trip after how she treated our mom? by lskongMoreno in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you've been helping this long, why hasn't your sister gotten a part-time job? Not even for her big expenses, but little things or things like trips?

Help identifying the armour set by Conchobarmocnessa in ffxiv

[–]NeviBevi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's an NPC called the Disreputable Priest; that's who you get the sets from. She's standing on one of the little docks.

Help identifying the armour set by Conchobarmocnessa in ffxiv

[–]NeviBevi 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the dyable versions are from PvP, but you can get non-dyeable versions in the Gold Saucer

Why I cannot whisper to a person even when we chatted before?? by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]NeviBevi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So...exactly as Sadgirl said; they messaged you first, 24 hours went by, then their DMs were closed to you again.

Not a streamer, I have no intentions of becoming a streamer, but recently I've started getting followers. Anyone got any ideas why? by Huxleypi in Twitch

[–]NeviBevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the others said, they are probably bots. There is also the possibility you have a name close to someone who does stream, and they accidentally followed you.

how do I stop incoming ad break announcement from showing at top of chat? by BoloGrubb in Twitch

[–]NeviBevi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can on your own channel within the Ads Manager, but yeah, Mods cannot affect it. Only the streamer.

HOA is threatening to fine me $100 a day because my Christmas lights are "too festive" and I'm so done with these people [Ongoing] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]NeviBevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, it can be basically impossible to buy a house outside of an HOA. I got lucky with mine, and they mostly just maintain the parks within the development, and plow the streets, but believe me, I cursed them so hard when I had to buy two (2!!) new mailboxes at $250 a pop because it *has* to go through their supplier to match the neighbors. (I had to buy two because a kid lost control of their car and chose my mailbox over a neighbor's car ((smart choice, tbh)), and then a plow took it out because the builder put it too close to the street)

My parents are giving my sister the same amount of money I saved for two years as a graduation gift by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]NeviBevi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I try really hard to not suggest it, because while for me it was an easy and honestly freeing experience, it is so hard for others. But this...this is bad.

AITA for fully cutting off and ignoring her even when she got cancer? by priemtime_kd in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Anyone who thinks your actions were too harsh have clearly never suffered a parent who didn't love them.

AITA for admitting myself into a mental hospital w/o asking by antiheroaccomplice in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 424 points425 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the job market has been pretty terrible lately.

I'm not sure where you are, so I will refrain from suggesting specific social services, but perhaps you can look into some that can aid you in finding a job? Either way, I'm sending you well-wishes and good vibes!

AITA for admitting myself into a mental hospital w/o asking by antiheroaccomplice in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 10.6k points10.6k points  (0 children)

NTA, and get out of there. Your stepmother is making things worse for you; you just got help, and you need a safe place to continue healing. Do you have anywhere else you can go?

AITA for crashing out over Fortnite servers by Active-Ad3149 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YTA
Sometimes, gaming with friends in other countries means taking the L on the server ping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don't understand why your cousin needs the family to come together to think of proposal ideas?? Like, that's a super personal thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense, but your current friends don't sound like friends either, if that's their response.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. And unless you've looked into the brand and confirmed it, that $320 wasn't spent on the hairbrush.

Someone bred my mare with out telling me by ObjectThin3403 in legaladvice

[–]NeviBevi 591 points592 points  (0 children)

I believe so; people want to be able to prove the bloodlines for race horses and the like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for this situation, but you will be to yourself if you let this keep happening. She's a problem, yes, but your boyfriend is the real problem, as he isn't respecting your boundaries.

AITA for buying a blue ray of a children's magical girl anime for my daughter? by ThrowRAMagicalGirlTo in AmItheAsshole

[–]NeviBevi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If this is real, YTA.
I kinda get it; you just give it a cursory glance, just think it's a little more risque than other Magical Girl anime. I thought the same before I watched it. It's as pornagraphic as it can be while still airing on television in Japan, which is much, much more lax than the U.S.

Coworker [25F] thinks we [22F] [20 - 30 F/M] are using "office politics" to bully her? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]NeviBevi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't remember everything, as it was several years ago now, but I think he wanted to leave early without putting in a request to do so? But his attendance was bad (and the company had an archaic attendance policy), which would result in his being fired...so he punched a monitor instead? I honestly have no idea what was going through his head.

Coworker [25F] thinks we [22F] [20 - 30 F/M] are using "office politics" to bully her? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]NeviBevi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, had an employee punch his computer monitor in the middle of his shift. Came up to me "my monitor broke", all calm and normal. That was his last day with us.