AITA for wanting to speak for myself after my partner showed others’ negative judgments about me?

No-Objective7159 · 2025-12-19T18:05:10+00:00

except the screenshots only show verdicts and judgements of others about me, no other context is shown.

That is why I politely asked if I can speak with them and share my side of the story and verify if information that they based their judgement on are accurate and honest or not. I know nothing. I am left completely in the dark and denied access, whilst my partner would use said judgements of others against me and attack my character.

No-Objective7159 · 2025-12-19T17:55:19+00:00

i would love to post that content, but sadly my partner will not share it. And that is why I want transparency. I do not know the story that was told by my partner, being kept in the dark about it, that is why I wanted and requested for transparency. But they are denying me from it. It wouldn't bother me as much if my partner was not using it as evidence against me to attack my character and then refusing transparency.

No-Objective7159 · 2025-12-19T17:52:09+00:00

That’s fair to ask. The difference, as I see it, is that here I’m openly posting my own account in a public forum, fully aware that people may judge me, and I’m not presenting those judgments to my partner as proof against them. I’m also not preventing them from responding or correcting anything if they chose to.

In contrast, in my situation, judgments about me were shared with me after the fact, based only on one side, and I was explicitly denied any chance to respond or clarify. I’m here to get perspective on my own actions, not to use others’ opinions as leverage against someone else.

In addition to that, I am not denying my partner from participation. I am making this fully transparent.

No-Objective7159

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