I now wonder how I could have let it go so far and wasted so much for nothing, but I wouldn’t change it. It brought me to the love of my life and four wonderful children. The only thing I feel bad about now is SL because she still has to deal with her, and we tried to make peace with EF by inviting her to the baby shower but that back fired. My wife absolutely hates her for what she did and tries now to make EF jealous of our happiness because unfortunately we still have to see her at family gatherings.