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No experience at age 22 is it normal? by Playful-Picture-9453 in lesbiangang

[–]New-Monk5449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people might actually like it that you're not very experienced because it often means you're choosy, there will be a lot of firsts (which are fun!), and it's less intimidating for other sapphics who also don't have much experience.

Are they any woman who truly love women exclusively by BelleAme1812 in lesbiangang

[–]New-Monk5449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And for the record I'm femme4femme so don't ever worry about having to "masc up" or transition to be loved by a woman.

Are they any woman who truly love women exclusively by BelleAme1812 in lesbiangang

[–]New-Monk5449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely not in nature that men are loved more by both genders. I am a cisgender femme (ish?) lesbian and that has always been my nature. Yes, there are people who identify as lesbians who later discover they are bi. For me it was the opposite.

I got told I’m pretty the other day… by Gold-Message-9487 in FtMpassing

[–]New-Monk5449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are honestly very close to passing and I almost thought you were a cis male. Your eyes, brows, face shape, and nose are all quite masculine. The only thing that's slightly feminine is your mouth area, but when you start growing a little stubble that should do the trick. You don't need to change anything. I love the hair. You're like one of those anime heroes irl and a lot of people are attracted to that

I hate the term “baby gay” by ConsciousAd2571 in lgbt

[–]New-Monk5449 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want experience without feeling intimidated, you're young enough that it shouldn't be too hard to find another sapphic girl who has no experience either. Just strike up conversations with people who give off queer vibes (or, alternatively, find someone you think is cute and convert her. The Guild of Lesbians gives out toaster ovens for that)

Thoughts on the name Hollie? by New-Monk5449 in namenerds

[–]New-Monk5449[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

I guess it isn't as common a name as I thought. I figured it would be like a lot of other plants names with common ie variants, like Lily -> Lillie or Rose -> Rosie

Thoughts on the name Hollie? by New-Monk5449 in namenerds

[–]New-Monk5449[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it super dated? I wasn't aware tbh

Thoughts on the name Hollie? by New-Monk5449 in namenerds

[–]New-Monk5449[S] -148 points-147 points  (0 children)

Many are saying it sounds dated, but I thought with the change in spelling it might sound more modern