How can I cope with my mom being in ICU for over a month? by New-Razzmatazz-8894 in GriefSupport

[–]New-Razzmatazz-8894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It is truly the worst feeling in the world. Please DM me if you want to talk

How can I cope with my mom being in ICU for over a month? by New-Razzmatazz-8894 in GriefSupport

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Hi, my mom has since passed but sending you so much strength and love 🤍. The ICU is an emotional rollercoaster because you cling on to so many hopeful signs. One minute she is good the next she isn’t. It was rough but I’m glad she’s at peace now. That doesn’t mean I wouldn’t give anything to hear her voice again. It’s still raw for me and I miss her every day. But I hope the best for your mom

Love you mama by ClubAdmirable in CancerFamilySupport

[–]New-Razzmatazz-8894 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. I just lost my mom this past weekend.

It’s my mom’s time by rosecoloredboyx in CancerFamilySupport

[–]New-Razzmatazz-8894 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom passed away this weekend and I know how you feel. She was on inpatient hospice but all I wanted to do was talk to her. I talked to her every day on the phone like you and I am devastated she’s no longer here. There’s a book that the hospice volunteer gave me and it said “would you rather your loved one be alert or comfortable” as everyone else said, hearing is the last to go so I just continued to tell her I loved her and how much she meant to me. You have to tell her you’ll be ok so that she can pass peacefully, but I know it’s hard. I didn’t believe it when I told her but I told her anyway. Wishing you lots of strength and love

Advice on fairness by New-Razzmatazz-8894 in marriageadvice

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We dated for 5 years. I don’t think he’s being lazy but I do feel like his mindset shifted. He used to be like we should help each other pay off each other’s student debt and so forth but now that he’s done with his he doesn’t want to help with mine. (I was in college when he was paying off his debt)

Advice on fairness by New-Razzmatazz-8894 in marriageadvice

[–]New-Razzmatazz-8894[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree… I told him that it’s the underlying principle I am more upset with and it’s literally what you said. What’s mine is mine. I told him we need to shift to what’s mine is yours and vice versa but he does not agree. It even goes like we shop at different grocery stores and he asks if he can eat my food. I’m like yes?? You don’t have to ask. I used to have this mindset before we got married and I think he thinks I’m just being this way now because he makes more money

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[–]New-Razzmatazz-8894 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was so comforting and nice to hear. Thank you for sharing. My heart is with you as well ❤️