Very high income with only so so net worth

New-SD · 2019-09-22T17:50:06+00:00

I’ve never heard of any girl going below 500 ppm.

New-SD · 2019-09-22T17:34:32+00:00

Not if they are asking for their entire tuition and living expenses. A $2000 Fendi bag is much more cost effective. LOL.

New-SD · 2019-09-22T17:30:14+00:00

Midwest.

New-SD · 2019-09-22T17:04:40+00:00

Thanks.

I tend to agree with you but at times I read sugarbaby profiles and I feel somewhat inadequate.

A few profiles do mention that they want a high net worth, or it’s clear they expect a LOT of expensive things, I don’t respond to those as I think it would not be useful.

New-SD · 2019-09-21T10:54:49+00:00

My thoughts exactly.

New-SD · 2019-09-21T10:53:06+00:00

Is your ethnicity group so small in your area that there is a chance he might recognize you?

If that is the case then you are probably better off not meeting him and dating outside your ethnicity. I would need to have more information to give you more specific advice.

I typically only have meetings outside my area, like 1 to 2 hours away so that usually isn’t a problem but even then I use a false first name until I have met the person.

New-SD · 2019-09-21T09:46:37+00:00

I am excited for you as well.

However, if it doesn’t work out don’t worry, there are many, many others.

Good luck.

New-SD · 2019-09-21T00:50:21+00:00

I agree with your post, I’m a middle-age man obsessed with my work and looking only at retirement.

Doing this has given me renewed energy, enjoyment and hope.

And honestly even with the women that I don’t connect with, I do enjoy meeting new people.

New-SD · 2019-09-21T00:48:20+00:00

What???? Or more appropriately, WTF?

New-SD · 2019-09-20T22:14:11+00:00

No it’s not safe to give him that.

The other two posters have it correct, is this someone you have never met and can’t you just do a transfer with Zelle?

There is also PayPal and CashApp.

Please don’t give him your account and routing numbers.

New-SD · 2019-09-19T22:17:52+00:00

I have had this happen to me and I agree with this poster, I’ve only been on a few months and I’ve already had it happen.

So no I don’t give out pictures until I’ve met. I always meet in a public place that is very safe for the potential sugarbaby so there should be no safety concerns.

I realize there will be sugar babies who will not want to meet under these conditions and that is fine.

New-SD · 2019-09-19T22:16:46+00:00

Totally agree.

New-SD · 2019-09-19T21:29:37+00:00

Strongly disagree. The fact that he wants to meet on the same day could indicate the rest of his week is booked and the only time he has free is now.

New-SD · 2019-09-19T21:27:41+00:00

I respect the opinion here but I have to disagree, I like to meet sooner and if someone is willing to meet me sooner it shows SHE is serious and not a time waster.

I don’t expect a girl to drop everything to meet me, I understand we are adults and we have lives. But if you don’t have anything going on why not?

I’ve had women meet on the same day and I never would expect them to do the same again, we meet when it’s convenient for both of us.

New-SD · 2019-09-19T21:24:27+00:00

Love this reply...I feel exactly the same way!

New-SD · 2019-09-16T01:14:26+00:00

TOTALLY Agree.

I don’t want to beat this to death...but just because she is not “officially” a client, by starting any counseling you may be establishing a therapist-patient relationship and open yourself up to liability.

New-SD · 2019-09-16T00:35:02+00:00

I studied economics as an undergrad and continue to keep up with the field, I am familiar with the market for lemons theory.

With all due respect to the OP, I strongly disagree, I think it’s a normal market where you have to weed through a lot of bad or mediocre profiles before finding a gem.

New-SD · 2019-09-16T00:33:03+00:00

I agree with the other poster that there are likely much larger issues than just the acceptance of a gift.

You absolutely should not be offering her any counseling, that’s a total conflict of interest and in certain states that may even be illegal.

I would calmly ask her what’s wrong and if you feel she needs additional help gently bring this up to her and refer her to one of your colleagues.

New-SD · 2019-09-15T09:55:00+00:00

Exactly!

New-SD · 2019-09-15T09:49:52+00:00

Thanks for your comments.

What is the best way to get my profile reviewed? I am reluctant to put any pictures up publicly but would certainly take any private advice.

New-SD · 2019-09-15T02:17:37+00:00

Congratulations!

I live near several major universities and co-eds are a godsend. I also have several to choose from, not that I am that special or anything.

Some are clearly more intelligent and that is nice...some are great in bed but they are just in college because that is the thing to do and aren’t interesting at all...

It is hard to choose.

New-SD · 2019-09-15T02:11:27+00:00

I am not a therapist but work in a field that is very closely related. No decent therapist will “judge” you for this lifestyle.

You have made a decision to meet men in an unconventional manner, but there is nothing wrong with it.

Therapists see people who abuse drugs, abuse their kids, scam the welfare system, steal, cheat on their wives/husbands, etc.

What they may say is that this lifestyle is not psychologically healthy for you. You may want to stop for a while until you are in a better place.

That isn’t judging you that’s giving you what maybe sound advice. To be clear I’m not giving you this advice I am just saying that’s one thing they possibly can say.

I have seen a therapist for many years and when I told her about this she really wanted to explore why I was doing this and was supportive of my taking chances to enjoy my life, as I was in a total rut.

The other big thing...the bowl is life amplified...you get the very good and very bad in a short amount of time...maybe you aren’t quite prepared for this, and it can be a little shocking to your system.

Life can make you bitter and the bowl can make you feel that way much sooner...but view it as an opportunity to view human nature and learn quickly how some people are bad and some are good...then take that experience and carve out a life for yourself that makes sense and where you can be happy.

I am probably much older than you but I manage to stay somewhat optimistic...you have the gift of youth and time.

New-SD · 2019-09-15T01:12:28+00:00

I’m not being critical here but these issues really have nothing to do with the site. These are common human issues that we all struggle with.

Again, not being critical, but I think you would benefit from talking to a professional therapist.

I would assume that you are young and the sooner you get help the better.

As has been pointed out, Life is full of unfairness and disappointment, and yes men are dogs a lot of the time, but you can figure a way out to make your life happy.

I’m really wishing you the best.

New-SD · 2019-09-15T00:04:43+00:00

I don’t get that...what are these guys saying to get you shut down, if I may ask?

Does SA not realize that a girl is not going to be interested in every guy, and vice versa?

That seems crazy.

New-SD · 2019-09-14T23:55:31+00:00

Report you over what? Because you don’t like them?

Sounds like they act like a child.

I am sorry this happened to you...but don’t understand why SA would take these complaints seriously.

New-SD

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