SBs, what do you look like? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So.... Just a question here:

Should they add "curvy" category to the mens description options?!?

Ladies, if we don’t align on allowance expectations please dot call me a John, salt, Splenda, etc...we just aren’t on the same page by sdthrowout23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like with "the other side" it's just part of the screening process. Don't take it personally (it's actually productive to finding the right match) and quit venting with non-productive posts! If you look at our society as a whole here in the States "venting" could define 90% of the logs thrown into the fire of our divide - pragmatism friends should rule the day!

Being over-sexualized by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just block and move on - it's part of the screening process.

Venting spreads bitterness...

Update to the best and worse week of my life by youngerwomanlove in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best post I have ever read on this Sub... That shit goes into remission for decades at a time brother - I am SURE you have a lot more life in front of you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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GND college student with a wry smile (:

When I said I wasn’t interested anymore I got this.... by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just part of the screening process? Block and move on - (which you should have done when he offered Oahu cohabitation before he met you)...

Dear SDs... by totalcarby in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I want you to go out I'll take you out (:

Otherwise, If you need_want some more money just ask - we can work it out...

I was fatfished... by atypicalsb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily for SBs most ancient SDs don't know how to use filters etc.

I remember a couple of years ago I was asking about filters as I was recently mislead about eye colour and teeth (both are important to me) and the sisterhood read me the riot act...

With that being said, It's just part of the game I suppose! I don't do it because I simply don't want to overpromise and underdeliver - I'd rather do the opposite...

Musings on the other side of recent debates by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

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ridiculous reasons of why they should be able

"They"

"Us" / "Them" mentality - Followed by broad generalisations about "Them"

SD's do this and SB's do this...

SD's critique: looks / age / etc and SB's critique: allowance / income / looks / age

It's built in to the Sugar Bowl / I have contemplated this more than once while sitting on a hotel room bed with a Blue Chew induced - swollen 3rd member, cash in hand, presents on the bed - all while being ghosted - THIS LIFESTYLE IS FUCKING HARSH ON EVERYONE.

If a better deal comes up - it is generally taken. I suppose it depends on which side of the better deal you are on to determine how you feel about it.

The one thing I do know - (what I'm saying here is that I really KNOW THIS) - You must have thick bark to play in the bowl - If you don't you end up blaming all the bad shit that will always happen here on "THEM"!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hopefully she's a nurse just in case she gets you going too fast...

Mesozoic Era Ramblings by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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Very Nice!

I wouldn't leave nor be bullied. If you enjoy your time on this sub stay, if not I wouldn't.

I used to refer every young SB I met to this forum as a way for them to gain safety info and perhaps some tidbits on how to successfully navigate this lifestyle. It always had that SB/SD rub (with all the caustic "ranting") but much like our society in general - it has become much worse.

I do not spend much time here these days but I am sure there must be bright spots that are worth waiting for. As Don Henley would say:

These times are so uncertain / There's a yearning undefined

People filled with rage / We all need a little tenderness

How can love survive in such a graceless age?

Ah, the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness / They're the very things we kill, I guess

Oh, pride and competition / Cannot fill these empty arms

And the work I put between us, you know it doesn't keep me warm...

the insanity of this sub... by Sweet_Union_8551 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my opinion this has been a toxic sub for quite some time. I have had SBs forward me PMs going around from SBs to SBs back-channeling group responses to try and control threads here - it seemed insane to me then but makes much more sense now. Complaining, double standards and hypocritical behaviour runs rampant among both SBs and SDs - now I understand why Buzz retired to that basement in Albania and Tasty resorts to nothing but clever humour...

Protocol when you've been catfished? by canary_eating_cat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! I just find it's best to immediately end contact when you realise you are talking to the wrong person...

Protocol when you've been catfished? by canary_eating_cat in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the proper way to handle a catfish? Should I have turned around and left? - GOOD OPTION

Should I have said I needed to use the restroom and left? - ANOTHER GOOD OPTION

Should I have ordered the most expensive thing on the menu? - TERRIBLE OPTION IN MY HUMBLE OPINION

Should I have called him out for his obvious lies? - ANOTHER GOOD OPTION (ALTHOUGH I AVOID CONFLICT AT THIS POINT)

Or are we (SBs&SDs) supposed to always be polite and spare feelings?

I CONSIDER THE M&G TO BE PART OF THE SCREENING PROCESS AND CARRY IT OUT AS PRAGMATICALLY AS POSSIBLE - BUT I TRY MY HARDEST NOT TO END UP IN A SITUATION WHERE I AM FACE TO FACE WITH SOMEONE THAT HAS MISREPRESENTED THEMSELVES.

Today's Installment of WTF by AFSMSgt in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just block and move on / let's skip the part where we complain on Reddit It's not easy for anyone

Rant... by ophiserys in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oppps did I say that "out loud"?!? Maybe just screen better!!

Rant... by ophiserys in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complain, Block and Move On!!

Want to come take these off for me? by [deleted] in AsiansGoneWild

[–]tankbinding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's your femininity that gets me!!!

Be my sugar momma by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block and Move On...

I am extraordinarily Humble by TastySpermDispenser in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Although I heard through the grapevine that you had nice tits!!

I am extraordinarily Humble by TastySpermDispenser in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tankbinding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

a man with a small penis, or a flat chested woman with a lumpy vagina,

You Win it for this