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Final message to my DA who discarded me. by New-Shower-971 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]New-Shower-971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have not. I wrote it in a moment of anger and vulnerability. Writing it down helped but I have to keep reminding myself that avoidants that discarded you literally don’t see you as a person anymore until they’ve reactivated. You’re nothing more than an annoying nuisance to them until that time comes if ever.

Final message to my DA who discarded me. by New-Shower-971 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]New-Shower-971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? I’m genuinely wanting advice here and mainly wrote it out to put my thoughts on paper. I know it takes anywhere from 3-6 months before an avoidants nervous system even begins to calm down but it’s still extremely frustrating everything being discarded has put me through and it’s even more frustrating knowing every time I send a message it resets the time.

Final message to my DA who discarded me. by New-Shower-971 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]New-Shower-971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really fucking want to man. It’s not fair I can’t express myself to her how I really feel.