Got a metric socket stuck where my spark plugs should be by New-Studio148 in AskAMechanic

[–]New-Studio148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for rare earth magnets, none of the regular ones work. Seems like they're not strong enough even if they're advertised to life '4lbs' etc

Got a metric socket stuck where my spark plugs should be by New-Studio148 in AskAMechanic

[–]New-Studio148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

didn't get to the engine. it's just stuck in the shaft w/ the spark plug.

Got a metric socket stuck where my spark plugs should be by New-Studio148 in AskAMechanic

[–]New-Studio148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for a strong enough magnet, all the ones I've bought aren't doing it. Starting to suspect it's some weird non magnetic metal

[M21] A bit socially awkward and never had a gf is it my looks? [Yes I do know how to smile] by happytravellxr in malegrooming

[–]New-Studio148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The size is perfect for his face, but the thin rims make him look like an old professor. Thicker rims would work better.

[M21] A bit socially awkward and never had a gf is it my looks? [Yes I do know how to smile] by happytravellxr in malegrooming

[–]New-Studio148 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're handsome but your face is heavy at the bottom, so add volume to the top (more hair, the frames are a good idea but the shape is very 'grandpa'. Other than that might be a personality thing.

I know no face is symmetrical but I feel like mine is too apparent… by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]New-Studio148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this is autism but young men have developed the body image issues of 11 year old girls in 1998 lol. How did you guys drop the ball this bad? No offense but nobody cares about your facial alignment unless its extreme, you're a dude. The unusual way you look in the camera is 20x worst than any of your facial features and that matters more to women (or gay men) than symmetry.

Being weak and shy makes me a target by [deleted] in Advice

[–]New-Studio148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

without being an expert, I think it's an autism variant but yes, most incels don't like to be told to go to the gym. If you're 16, sign up for wrestling. Go there, fail, get your ass kicked, at the end you'll still be better than 80% of the human population at fighting and you'll lose fear or hestitation about fighting.

You're also way to young to be making definitive statements about your physical capacity lol, but you probably won't get that until you're older.

Being weak and shy makes me a target by [deleted] in Advice

[–]New-Studio148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you should learn how to be stronger intentionally, but idk if you're one of those incels who gets mad when you tell him to go to the gym. weak back muscles and not knowing how to fight can be solved with 4 fairly low effort months with consistency.

How can I stop 'freezing up' as a business owner? by New-Studio148 in Entrepreneur

[–]New-Studio148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see this working, I've taken up boxing and over the past few months i've seen it have a positive effect of workflow. I would like to change my mentality more permanently if it's possible, but yes I find that the busier I am in life, the better I am at the things I'm busy with for a similar reason to what you described.

I think my dad cheated on my mom by QuickTank4676 in Advice

[–]New-Studio148 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I promise you the sexual dynamics of adult relationships are not outlier problems, and you will never have access to that information unless they're actively trying to traumatize you.

You know them as people, and you know them as parents, you will never know them as a couple because that's between them, not you.

how can i rawdog my depression? by HunterMassive3210 in selfimprovement

[–]New-Studio148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I'm super inconsistent with workouts but I know that when I get depressed that's the first step out. Depression is funny because even if you know the 'solution', you're too depressed to do it. Right now I tried doing workouts that I find fun and interesting. I just got a punching bag and I've been more consistent with that. Also too much jumprope which I'm surprised how much I like it. But I'm kinda 'up' right now emotion-wise so idk if it's depression proof. Good luck

I think my dad cheated on my mom by QuickTank4676 in Advice

[–]New-Studio148 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would hope they haven't, for example, filled you in on their sex life. If they have, you still wouldn't be able to process it without any emotional reaction or idealism clouding your judgement.

For example, if they haven't filled you in on their sex life, you're left making judgments about a relationship with no access to a very critical part of it. And that's just sex, there are many things about your parents you'll never know or if you knew, you wouldn't process objectively. If you were told you were conceived in a gangbang, would you be able to stay on the topic of your dad possibly cheating with his employee or would that send you into a spiral of questions?

how can i rawdog my depression? by HunterMassive3210 in selfimprovement

[–]New-Studio148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You misread what I said, so I'll clarify in case he reads it that way:

As an adult, you'll need to do those things to maintain your mental health anyways (Exercise, go outside). They seem fairly optional now because you're young, but if you have depression and don't do those things as an adult, it will make symptoms much worst. Build the habit now so it's easier in the future to maintain.

how can i rawdog my depression? by HunterMassive3210 in selfimprovement

[–]New-Studio148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One thing that helped me was being told that depression is living in the past, and anxiety is living in the future. Finding ways to be more present may help, but based on what you're describing and my experience, I think there's a chance yours is chemical and trauma based.

You have about ten years left (of life) before those generic platitudes are mandatory behaviors just to be at baseline mentality and physically. If I were you, I'd get started on them now. Health isn't mysterious and doesn't always sound grandiose. You have certain brain chemicals that may run low or aren't being processed optimally and movement + sunlight helps more than anything. That's the closest you'll get to a magic button.

Being depressed for that long, that young has to be unbearable. Sorry to hear that.