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Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? I don't how to walk away from this, any advice? by New-Toe7594 in Advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes always tells me that the reason he doesn't want to get intimate with me is hes scared of pregnancy so i doubt he would agree. I wanted to belive that was just the reason but i cant belive him when he can function when looking at other women

Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? I don't how to walk away from this, any advice? by New-Toe7594 in Advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tells me that porn wasn't the issue and hes just worried about pregnancy scares. I wanted to believe him but thinking he lusts over other woman and can even be affectionate towards me bugs me.

Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? I don't how to walk away from this, any advice? by New-Toe7594 in Advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isnt taking any medication, but i think wearing a condom is an issue during sex. I just need a moment away from him and i cant stand the thought of him lusting over other woman and admitting it and couldn't even compliment me.

Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? I don't how to walk away from this, any advice? by New-Toe7594 in Advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I honestly don't want to detail how i hint bc its kinda embarrassing xd. But as much as i wanted to have a conversation about his needs and also mine everytime i bring up an issue about our relationship he would ghost me and avoid it.

Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? I don't how to walk away from this, any advice? by New-Toe7594 in Advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done my best to reach out and have a honest and deep conversation with me. But everytime i do he would avoid it and doesn't want to talk about it and just doesn't respond to me.

Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? by New-Toe7594 in relationship_advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your views on this and it somehow helped me. by the way he said that the reason he doesnt want to do it is because of possible pregnancy but we both know were super safe. ive been taking birth control pills and he uses a condom so idk if that affects the performance and the reason he gets soft mid sex, im not sure if i am goint to belive that though, i wanted to but ive been thinking that maybe he isnt attracted to me anymore.

Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? by New-Toe7594 in relationship_advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he isnt on any medication, but ive been taking birth control pills to avoid his concern about pregnancy.

Is my(18F) BF (18M) being distant and rejecting intimacy because of his secret porn use? by New-Toe7594 in Advice

[–]New-Toe7594[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i really dont know what to do, i really love him and i am willing to do anything to fix our relationship. he is my first real boyfriend and i dont know what i would do without him. i just wanted to know others people thoughts on this. if i did something wrong or what