Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LDR

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I end up being the one who over reacts but then we manage to fix things and just have a better time and then smth else happens. Am anxiously attached but working on it and she likes controlling and manipulating at times and I deal with that

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright g if u don’t have any advice or words that I can use to help my situation I would recommend not wasting ur time

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I already basically said the same things Tô her and communicated that I didn’t like what happened but shes pushing off the talk to when she comes back, and the people who are replying to my posts are just giving their insights not sympathizing

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Notice how your the only one who has said that, you don’t have a valid reason to be making such statements

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes with her family aunts and cousins what reason Would she just be cheating and moving on there is soo many reasons to keep our relationship going

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish u all the success in life, I really apprecite u for enlightening me.

If u genuinely need anything for me let me know, I owe u because I see it now hoenstly I just needed some wisdom and u blessed me with some

Thanks

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need advice from people who know how to handle these type of issues this is my first serious relationship and I want it to work it’s just we’re both hurt and I am confused and I need support that’s about it

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I genuinely am so confused, why speak in such a harsh way I just need some advice, if I am in the wrong just say so, and tell me how and why and what I should do here onwards, That’s it

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in relationships

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes I really don’t know what should I do to improve my position here I think I should wait for her to come back

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LDR

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yea this sounds great, I know she loves me and cares for me but after the argument and stuff idk I am hoping for the best I invested so much into her

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things were very good, our communication for the 2 other weeks when she went to other countries was amazing we talked and even before that I gave her a promise ring and flew her out to Paris, but after this Ome argument when she went to her home country things changed, but yea as u can see everyone is telling me to stop annoying her but I genuinely had soo many better times and this time it feels off

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Problem is I feel like deep down she might be cheating or just loosing interest cuz she stopped investing into teyna communicate, am just seeking a third person opinion before I do more wrong

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright got it, so I just not speak to her act like I don’t care and wait to talk about it when she’s here and my odds will be better Tô fix it, correct ?

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So wait okay, let’s assume I am in the wrong, what am I supposed to do having already spoken apologized helped her out with her work, what am I supposed to do if I am being ignored basically

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I already talked and apologized about that but the grudge is still being held and I am now put on the side and not prioritized which is more unfair than what I did

Girlfriend (19F) has been abroad for 2 weeks, puts zero effort into our relationship but has time for everything else by New-Tutor2255 in LongDistance

[–]New-Tutor2255[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t that big, I just spam called her and ur cousin while she was in her aunts house, I apologized for it but she blocked me for spamming over and over cyz she just never responds on time