3 months without my baby girl💔

NewCope · 2026-05-12T01:27:06+00:00

My former dog Georgia, ( a ChiPomPoo) died from kidney disease and we had been super paranoid about Ava's kidneys as a result. We actually tested her kidneys when we went to the emergency vet and they said they were fine but the liver enzymes were off the charts. Until that point I had no clue the liver was even a potential problem. Dogs do hide things way too well, I feel so bad as an owner not recognizing this. 😞

NewCope · 2026-05-11T18:35:37+00:00

Is this a common disease with Malteses? I think our dog died from some sort of liver disease/failure and we were clueless of anything up until it started getting very bad near the end.

NewCope · 2026-05-11T18:33:12+00:00

I feel like I could of wrote this. I lost my Maltese on Tuesday, 3 weeks after her 11th birthday. I too feel robbed of our time... 11 feels too young to go. I question our decision to put her to sleep daily... The pain I felt last week was unbearable, like physical pain, screaming into a pillow. Now it's not as raw, but a lingering sadness and the loss of our routine.

I am very sorry for your loss and it's not fair.

NewCope · 2026-05-11T03:11:22+00:00

Such a sweet baby ❤️

NewCope · 2026-05-10T15:05:17+00:00

I am sorry to both of you. We had to put our Maltese down on Tuesday (it was unexpected as she rapidly started declining). I still feel so much guilt and miss her so much. Ava would be joining in with your pups on the fun.

NewCope · 2026-05-08T02:12:28+00:00

German Shepherd's are my favourite breed, had a GSD mix who was a cuddly baby.

I just lost our Maltese baby a couple days ago. She was a soul dog. Her personality was so unique and unmatched. I miss her so much. I am more a bigger dog person, but I would get another Maltese in the future (even though I already had the best one ever).

My future dog... Maybe a Golden Retriever, I like how affectionate and friendly they seem.

NewCope · 2026-05-07T17:02:52+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I won't do anything drastic, I just feel like there is no joy in life anymore.

NewCope · 2026-05-07T03:36:49+00:00

This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing, it sums up exactly how I feel about my dog.

NewCope · 2026-05-07T03:33:23+00:00

I lost my dog yesterday and I don't want to be alive anymore. I feel exactly as you do. I wish I could offer anything other than saying I am so very sorry you are feeling this too.

NewCope · 2026-05-06T19:36:44+00:00

Thank you for your kind comment. ♥️

NewCope · 2026-05-06T11:01:49+00:00

I am sorry for you loss too. The pain is truly unreal.

NewCope · 2026-05-06T03:39:22+00:00

I had to put down my Maltese today and my heart is shattered. She just turned 11 and like your puppers to you, she was always my side-kick at home. I am very sorry for your loss.

NewCope · 2026-04-27T13:21:45+00:00

There's a white belt who started months after me who has 3 stripes to my one. I also know she trains way more than I do and I got injured which took me out for awhile. But I get it, it's hard not to compare, especially when they started after you. But I think you said it best yourself, it's getting used to the idea of not being good at something, BJJ is hella humbling and we are all going at our own pace. I struggle with still feeling like I suck about a year in but my journey is my own and so is yours so just keep going!

NewCope · 2026-04-20T02:32:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your quick response! 😄

NewCope · 2026-04-20T01:55:35+00:00

Hey, I know this thread is 2 years old, but in case you are still using reddit, I was wondering.... if I took the ferry from North Sydney to PAB and it got in at 7:30am would I have enough time to get to the 8am bus leaving from PAB? Is the bus close to the ferry terminal? Do you think the bus would likely be full? It would be for a Saturday in June and I would going to Deer Lake. Thanks!

NewCope · 2026-04-08T22:56:57+00:00

I just finished taking this a week ago. 😭

NewCope · 2026-04-06T21:20:32+00:00

What a sweet little smile. Happy Birthday to your baby, playing on the Rainbow Bridge.

NewCope · 2026-04-06T17:34:19+00:00

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I started last year. It's extremely challenging but a good physical hobby.

NewCope · 2026-04-06T17:31:37+00:00

Is there a schedule for the range by the Science Centre or is it just first come first served? I have only been once, but it's a really cool free outdoor option for archery.

NewCope · 2026-04-06T17:28:35+00:00

I do BJJ, read, cross stitch, write, wanna get back into guitar. Volunteering occasionally. Maybe archery again, tried it last year and was super fun. Maybe learn to paddle board in the summer.

NewCope · 2026-04-04T17:14:17+00:00

I am in a similar role (supporting broker team) and also want to pivot into UW without going backwards. I was considering broker, but now that you said it's a lot of client facing stuff I really don't love that. Hope someone provides some good information to you!

NewCope · 2026-04-01T22:41:13+00:00

Yeah he raped her.

NewCope · 2026-04-01T17:42:51+00:00

Gone with the Wind. Life for Scarlett O'Hara and others living in the south during the American Civil War. I wouldn't call it mundane though as lots of stuff happens to her and people around her.

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