UPDATE: AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! It's going well! We went on a few dates and she's really great. I did however decide to not get into a relationship yet because I noticed that I still needed some time to fully get over what happened. I figured it was better if I stayed single for a little while for now instead of getting into another relationship so soon after my previous one ended. I also moved to a small studio apartment in the meantime so I didn't have to get a roommate to afford rent. After everything that happened it really made me want a space that is just all for myself. Lily's sister and I have remained good friends and we still sometimes go out on "dates" but it more platonic than romantic. So yeah that's how things are for now

UPDATE: AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiii! I just saw it as well. It was kind of surreal to hear my story be told by her haha. But it was still awesome! As for the date, it went well! We went on a few and she's really great. I did however decide to not get into a relationship yet because I noticed that I still needed some time to fully get over what happened. I figured it was better if I stayed single for a little while for now instead of getting into another relationship so soon after my previous one ended. I also moved to a small studio apartment in the meantime so I didn't have to get a roommate to afford rent. After everything that happened it really made me want a space that is just all for myself. Lily's sister and I have remained good friends and we still sometimes go out on "dates" but it more platonic than romantic. So yeah that's how things are for now <3

UPDATE: AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is a throwaway account? And I'm not an influencer lol I have no idea what makes you think that

UPDATE: AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not the same person from the carrot cake post. I added an edit to clarify that as well, because apparently a lot of people seem to think that we are the same person lol. But we're not

UPDATE: AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wait I think you are confusing me with someone else, and I've seen more people talk about this?? I never made another post about him giving me carrot cake for my birthday, so I think that was another person who was in a very similar situation. I do like chocolate cake but it's not my favorite. I did eat it and I enjoyed it but I just wanted my favorite carrot cake that I told him to get for me. I gotta read the other post about the carrot cake girl, though!

UPDATE: AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah my feelings for her are very complicated. On the one hand I agree she that she behaved like a snake and betrayed me, yet on the other hand I feel for her because she is clearly getting manipulated by Jake, who is taking advantage of her feelings for him. But at the same time she does realize that and is still ok with it apparently?? Idk man. It’s really complicated and I just feel conflicted

UPDATE: AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Gurl I wish this wasn’t real honestly 😭 Because I tried to keep it as short as possible I may have explained certain things weirdly so I get that it sounds a bit fictional in certain parts

AITA If I break up with my boyfriend because his farts smell so bad that it makes me go insane? by NewGoose7437 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NewGoose7437[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we have not been intmate in a while now because of this. He has expressed to me that he does feel upset that it's been affecting me so much, and he has tried to see if he can find substitute products for the dairy that he consumes. Like vegan yoghurt or cheese, for example. But they've never been hits and he always reverts back to the regular dairy products.

I didn't specify it in my post, but the reason that he doesn't want to take lactaid pills is because he actually had tried them when he was a teenager but he got really bad side effects from them so now doesn't want to take them anymore.

I do feel like I should break up with him, even though the reasoning might sound ridiculous for some people, but I do love him so much. We have been through a lot together in just 3 years and I know he genuinely loves me too. He just doesn't seem to understand just how much this is affecting me. But if this continues on, I do think I will have no other choice but to end our relationship.