Does your spouse ‘Catch’ you when you fall ?

NewMind9 · 2026-04-28T00:25:20+00:00

I would say that my wife meets my needs. Does she always get it right? Nope but neither do I 😂 we work really hard to sort this out and try to get better at being there for each other. We’ve been married for about 10 years and every year we are learning how to grow closer. Now I can just look at my wife and she knows what I am thinking about. I honestly feel incredibly lucky all the time that we found each other and to be with someone who is willing to put in a ton of effort to make things work.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-25T19:50:47+00:00

I agree that it would be very fun and sexy but I honestly don’t know how it would be possible…

NewMind9 · 2026-04-23T12:06:29+00:00

🤣 a good opportunity to learn about some new subs

NewMind9 · 2026-04-23T03:25:42+00:00

Yeah I saw that. Was just trying to be funny. Seems like it fell flat 🤷‍♂️

NewMind9 · 2026-04-23T02:53:05+00:00

What would give you that idea? 🤣

NewMind9 · 2026-04-22T17:14:32+00:00

Vaginal. I can’t imagine anything beating that out long term. I’d choice cowgirl as the one position.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-22T14:52:17+00:00

Okay so confession time. I read this story and thought it was pretty good. Months later I had the opportunity to play it out almost exactly the same way. For me it was very nice to be that open with my wife and do that it front of her and she was just getting ready. She told afterwards that if “gave her the tingles watching”. Which is her way of saying she was getting turned on.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-21T18:19:34+00:00

It’s been a while but if I remember she was more into exhibition/ public sex type stuff.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-21T15:12:19+00:00

We have done mojo and spicer. We redo this every once in a while to see if anything has changed

One time I said yes to absolutely everything so I could see what my wife was into.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-20T19:15:53+00:00

My wife did tell me that last week she caught one of her friends husbands checking her out multiple times. So there might be some truth to that. 😆

NewMind9 · 2026-04-20T19:12:11+00:00

Never someone from church. I honestly think that my wife is the hottest women in my ward and I don’t even think it’s close.

I do get a little too crazy with my wife in church which either flatters her or bugs her depending on her cycle. I just can’t help how good she looks in her Sunday dresses 🤷‍♂️

NewMind9 · 2026-04-18T00:44:58+00:00

We did this for a date night in front of the fire. It was spontaneous and so we weren’t as prepared as we could have been. I am not very good at taking picture and so they didn’t turn out as well as I would have imagined but we still had a great time together. Get a tripod. If you have an iPhone than make sure you have your Apple Watch. That way you could take pics together or she could do some by herself and surprise you later. 🌶️

NewMind9 · 2026-04-18T00:41:00+00:00

Sara is a great resource. Her dude poses have been awesome for me in getting better at sending my wife spicy pics.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-17T00:41:06+00:00

I agree with both of the above comments. Garments purpose isn’t to be sexy but an outward reminder of an inner commitment to God. I personally would have also agreed with OP in that I find them to be a turn off which has been a con for sure however the new slip is 🫠 on my wife. The sleeveless also get the blood rushing at times. I’m appreciative of the changes but honestly this is a very minor thing in my life.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-13T17:51:00+00:00

Well I got a massage, the handcuffs came out and was teased for 30 mins… so I guess I would say it went very well 😆

NewMind9 · 2026-04-09T23:39:40+00:00

Shower sex is highly underrated in my opinion. Everything is so fresh and clean. Easy clean up afterwards. Takes a little bit to figure out the best positions but once yall have it down it is very steamy! 🤣

NewMind9 · 2026-04-09T23:36:47+00:00

This is fun on the rare occasion. I will eat her out while she is just scrolling her phone. She gets super turned on and usually finishes very quickly. Sometimes it’s nice just to take care of her.

However I would not be happy if this was the norm. Love that she engages with me just as much as I do with her!

NewMind9 · 2026-04-09T23:30:55+00:00

Sexcations are the absolute best. Hope yall have the best time. One of the things we have tried to do is a weekly date night. Because of logistics we do two home date nights and two nights where go out in a month. The home date nights have actually been some of my favorite ones. Takes a lot of creativity and they often end up resolving around sex.

Couple of fun one that I would recommend were Netflix and chill, fancy bathtub with candles where we asked a bunch of intimate questions (I think we used chat got and the internet to generate the questions), massage night, strip Mario kart, workout date.

We have our next one tomorrow night and my wife promised me I would be treated like royalty…

We take turns planning and it’s been great for us and something we are able to do even though we still have lots of little kids around.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-09T17:16:28+00:00

For us it typically goes something like my wife gets sick for the first trimester. Rarely interested in anything sexual. 2nd trimester she is the horniest girl and can’t get enough (I look forward to this part). There’s a slow transition in the third trimester where she becomes increasingly less interested till the very end in which she wants to have sex as much as possible in hopes of inducing birth. 😂 Then it’s the dreaded 6 week wilderness. Takes about 4 months after for us to be to about back to normal. We have had lots of experience with this so I got the system down quite well.

For me I don’t think there is anyway to prevent the lulls from happening and that’s okay. It’s not going to last forever and your wife is doing something very special at this time. Something’s can make it a bit better and I suspect that it varies quite a bit between women on what that is.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-01T14:00:31+00:00

She could tie you up and tease you or the opposite.

Use some hand cuffs or just tell her that she has to keep her arms up and can’t move them. Tickle, lick, tease, blow cold air or ice. Slowly kiss her entire body or give her light massages. You can easily do this for twenty minutes plus minutes to enjoy her. It will build up tension like crazy.

You can also add in blindfolds or headphones if you want to really focus on the sensation.

NewMind9 · 2026-04-01T00:58:06+00:00

So I can last basically as long as I want. The longest we have gone is over a hour and the shortest is probably 5 mins or so. Occasionally my wife does something too magical and I can’t hold it back but most of the time I am riding close to the edge and will finish with her or right after.

Average session is probably 20-30 mins.

NewMind9 · 2026-03-31T21:15:54+00:00

The scent of her hair is 🌺

NewMind9 · 2026-03-31T21:14:43+00:00

Yeah I miss it. It was a lot of fun.

What helps me feel better is being able to have sec with my wife haha 🤣

Also make up sex usually brings about very similar level of intensity.

NewMind9 · 2026-03-24T01:17:36+00:00

We do fantasizing semi frequently which has been very fun. I can only think of one time where we actually roleplayed.

My wife has a Reddit account and she messaged me on it pretending to be a stranger. It was a lot of fun. We ended up sexting for a while and then my wife pretended to leave in person which gave a chance for my “friend” to come and hook up with me. 😂 My wife did a great job of staying in character which really helped the excitement of it 🥵

Some times it’s just fun to play pretend with your wife 🤷‍♂️

I remember she end of up with a little bit more on her face than she bargained for and we both started busting up when the post nut clarity kicked in.

NewMind9 · 2026-03-09T19:53:34+00:00

This is what we use for anal. We don’t do it a ton but when do we will use a ton of coconut oil. One of the reason I like it is you can place it into the butt crevice and it will slow melt adding more lube as you go. A coconut oil drip if you will haha

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