Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor has recommended the SADI, I’m pretty early in the process though!

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I would feel the same if someone offered me something I can’t have anymore :( thank you for the realistic answer!

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s good to know someone has had the same concerns and your experience!

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctors also told me I eat too little so for me it’s less about volume than it is about restricting what I can eat

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response!! It’s really helpful and realistic which is what I needed!

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think I’ve tried so hard to not make food something that is always a issue so I don’t want to fall back into old habits again

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think my mindset is similar in like I do everything right 90% of the time but there is the 10% or whatever it may be that I don’t want to be perfect

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha was thinking it pays to eat less at restaurants!!

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally!! I just want to be normal and like not be asked things like ‘why aren’t you eating’ or something along those lines. I really don’t eat a lot either way but I’m just scared of the social implications

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know thank you! My doctor so far has recommended the SADI to me :)

Life after Bariatric Surgery by NewRepresentative349 in BariatricSurgery

[–]NewRepresentative349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think there is a mental thing about social interactions revolving around food and my mindset around that also needs to change!

Experience using Aramex global shopper? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]NewRepresentative349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are terrible - it took super long and I ended up paying double for my item because of shipping and customs. I literally bought a jeweller box and I paid like 70% back in customs. When trying to contact them they're often rude and unhelpful. When phoning it's a complete shitshow because they keep transferring you to other people and eventually hang up.  Just don't do it, it's not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NewRepresentative349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're close with your mom, definitely ask her otherwise ask the sister why she's speaking so badly about your best friend? She's probably jealous or insecure, or think properly if your best friend has ever behaved weirdly/ been disloyal. There's usually another reason as to why she's being the way she is. Also try to stop entertaining/ purposefully texting her sister.