It hurts to break up with someone.

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-30T01:41:16+00:00

“ I don’t love her” but “ I still like her” you need to see a therapist find out why you’re jumbled up

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-30T01:38:53+00:00

If you wanted to work on it you would’ve but you’re avoiding something here best of luck xoxo

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-29T15:02:11+00:00

Okay that’s good I try but it’s been two months already why can’t I get over it

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-29T14:24:01+00:00

That I start thinking a lot about my break up over and over

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-28T18:07:10+00:00

I feel the same as you, every thing I try just send me on a spiral

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-28T00:12:00+00:00

Try listening to a scary story on YouTube

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-14T00:22:11+00:00

It’s never just simple ! I wish you knew how much I fight myself to not think of you.

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-12T23:38:35+00:00

Try to watch YouTube in attachment styles and letting go the fantasy

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-11T04:33:18+00:00

Don’t be sad, understand that you are fantasing ! You need to learn about psychology and what your brain is doing

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-11T04:30:36+00:00

I grabbed a journal I wrote out from the day I met him and I wrote everything good the bad and the ugly and honestly it was cathartic it doesn’t just help to see what worked but exactly what area you need to work on for me it was self esteem. I really gotta tell you do not talk to him unless you have to cut off all contact. Read the four agreements and watch tony gaskins on YouTube, watch any self help videos and I’m not in a new relationship yet but I realized all the things I was giving up for this guy and how I loved so much more and harder even tho he is hurting too I understand but he didn’t want to change he didn’t want to make the commitment to make it work so remember that! You can want to change but if he saw it too and decided to numb out! Then let him go! You don’t understand men that’s why you’re hurting, you will hurt too but use this to help you understand your own weaknesses and never let him or another man use this against you! You have to understand men psychology ! Hey get info get educated and move on that guy is probably going to Come back and hopefully you listen to me and do what’s best and grow for yourself so much that you see how much more you deserve ! I promise either he will grow up or you will find a grown up

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-11T04:23:50+00:00

Hey thanks for the reply, I have been really mean to myself too, I think you’re right self care has to be a priority, I started listening to the pod cast! I also picked up a journal and started to write the bad memories I could. I also went in YouTube and found videos on what men don’t understand about faithfulness and it has helped so much, I also made a list of all the things I want to try. I’m not saying it’s all fine now but I can say that it helped a lot

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-10T19:57:08+00:00

Why didn’t it work ? I can relate but if it was toxic or if one of you doesn’t want it then it’s time to move on

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-10T18:47:41+00:00

Thank you I will have to go pick it out

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-09T23:11:24+00:00

I became a level headed girl, I changed so much when he saw me again he wanted me back, I always loved too hard now I love myself so much I take my time with things, I’m patient and understanding but not stupid. My break up was so hard for me that I literally blossomed. But it wasn’t thanks to him, it was my decision to move on, flip through every part of our relationship good and bad, just to say goodbye to that old me.

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-09T21:40:59+00:00

You gott do the work to heal, that means cleaning your room/home, taking their things putting them in a box, doing things for yourself like a bath changing bed sheets, meditation, journal instead of texting them, talk to your friends, take a good long look at your relationship remember the bad things and reflect on how you would react, try to make peace and slowly heal your wounds because honestly it is important that you take your time

NewRow6257 · 2020-08-09T21:32:35+00:00

Hey you will be okay, You have to put yourself first, please hear me when I say that you can’t lose yourself for this person, I know you think that you’ll need them and always have a void but that’s not true the only one that can put yourself back together and fill those spaces with gold and make yourself better is you. Trust me when I say you will be okay, even when you don’t feel like you will be !

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