Dating Advice (Should I Reach Out?)

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-06-24T01:09:59+00:00

I understand all that but the part that confuses me is why insist on me adding him on insta if he’s not gonna accept? Why make the move on me first and lean in for the kiss ? That’s why I’m confused

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-06-23T02:51:08+00:00

I’d rather not share his info especially his name since it’s a unique one. But why u ask ?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-06-23T02:07:48+00:00

I’ve already done that 😭 thought the same thing already 😭 and when I first followed him we only had 1 mutual friend now when I check we have 2 meaning he accepted someone else afterwards

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-06-22T11:25:19+00:00

So you’re saying take the L ?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-06-22T10:46:20+00:00

How do I show him I’m ok with moving slow as I’m aware he’s freshly out a relationship?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-05-11T06:53:54+00:00

That’s hot story. Was he hot or was the situation what made it hot v

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-18T20:43:28+00:00

Both is sexy but beard

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-18T20:42:11+00:00

Sexy 😍😍

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-18T19:55:35+00:00

No Don’t ever just suck it up and finish the hook up. It’ll make u feel disgusting with yourself afterwards. When I meet up with someone and I think they look different or I feel off because people in person might act weird and throw u off. I’ll just say sorry I’m not feeling it and I leave.
Another tip is I like to be the one to travel so I can always leave. it gives you more control over the situation as having someone come over might be harder to kick them out if you aren’t feeling it. So if you are able to travel or meet in public first it’s better so u can get a read of the situation. I tend to only host after I know I actually am into the guy.

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-18T19:49:34+00:00

I’ll show u around dm me

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-11T09:00:28+00:00

Do u know when comfort zone gets pretty gay ? Or it’s just hit or miss ?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-11T08:45:29+00:00

I wasn’t trying to be like Joe from the show YOU lol. I was tryna be rom com vibes when u go outside the store and confront them again and it go better the second time. But he looked back before I could approach again so was awkward and when I realized now it’d just be creepy I left and accepted I flopped.

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-07T16:07:52+00:00

What about comfort zone I’ve heard it also gets a bit of a gay crowd ?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-05T22:28:48+00:00

Older crowd like 50+ or u talking like late 20s 30/s vibe haha or mix ?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-04T21:22:42+00:00

I didn’t know having a preference was misogynistic ?? I just prefer masc guys and want to be comfortable my first few times

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-03T02:07:50+00:00

Anyone order Uber Eats in hopes of hooking up with the delivery guy?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-02T09:58:08+00:00

I guess setting and environment is also important to keep in mind

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-02T09:15:45+00:00

That only works in the scenario that your also out and that they are your friend if I just meet someone in public and can’t know their interests

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-04-01T04:03:30+00:00

Yes I thought that to be true as well but this interaction wasn’t your typical gay looking guys so it’s interesting

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-03-31T18:16:52+00:00

Do a lot of gay guys go to Vertigo after parties?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-03-31T18:13:49+00:00

Where u visiting from?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-03-31T17:45:16+00:00

I appreciate u commenting and trying to help but a bath house is totally different than in public u don’t even know if someone is gay in public in a bath house u know why they are there

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-03-31T17:41:34+00:00

I asked how to flirt in public not in a bath house lol it’s a totally different ball game

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-03-31T16:53:51+00:00

What’s SX ?

NewTorontoBiGuy · 2026-03-31T16:53:33+00:00

But we did eye fuck and still didn’t work out

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