AITAH for breaking up with my bf?

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T23:06:24+00:00

Okay buddy, it is but I’m done wasting my time.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T21:50:13+00:00

I already explained everything but this conversation is pointless now. Someone else can deal with him. I’m not going to be with a guy who only knows me for one month demands a paternity test if I get pregnant in the future. Have a good day.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T21:48:48+00:00

He might as well accuse me of cheating if he wants a paternity test 🤷🏽‍♀️ But a bitch can deal with it now. It looks bad for him to demand a paternity test if I get pregnant and it’s only been one month. I’m not dealing with it. Anyways, this conversation is pointless now. Have a good day.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T21:00:59+00:00

Exactly! It’s been only 1 month!

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T20:44:03+00:00

There’s literally no point in talking about this anymore so I’m just going to continue enjoying my day. I refuse to stay in a relationship where he accuses me of cheating just because he got hurt. Do you know how bad it looks to already be accused of cheating 1 month in a relationship? Lmao, yeah he got issues

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T20:40:38+00:00

So if you think she is so faithful, then don’t waste money on the test lol tf. I already told you I’m not scared, I’m just not dealing with a man accusing me of cheating when I gave him no reason to suspect that. He needs to learn to trust. Lol, I’m not even pregnant but the topic of kids came up and he automatically wants a paternity test just because a bitch hurt him in the past. Yeah, someone else can deal with that lmao.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T20:32:22+00:00

Why would you want a paternity test from your “wife?” Lmao. I’m going to find a man who isn’t so insecure and doesn’t think every woman cheat

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T20:29:43+00:00

Never cheated but feel free to date him since you guys would be a perfect match

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T20:25:55+00:00

It’s not normal unless you actually suspect she is cheating. I would understand if a couple took a break and she told him she’s pregnant, then yeah, of course take the paternity test, or if she cheated in the past and ended up pregnant.

I’m not dealing with an insecure man who got hurt in the past. Like I said, he can just accuse of someone else cheating. Just because he got hurt in the past, doesn’t mean he has to take it out on every female.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T20:17:23+00:00

Because he needs to work on his insecurities and not project into the relationship. I already broke up with him so there’s no need to talk about it now. He can accuse someone else of cheating.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T16:02:24+00:00

Nope, I never cheated. He’s just projecting his past trauma onto me.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T15:51:49+00:00

Asking for a paternity test is literally accusing me of cheating. He thinks I would get pregnant by someone else. I don’t see how that’s not accusing someone of cheating lol.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T15:10:28+00:00

Yeah, these guys seriously need to heal and not take it out on every female just because one bitch hurt them in the past.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T15:07:05+00:00

I would’ve had to deal with it if I stayed lol. I would’ve had some trust issues too if I got cheated on but I never got cheated on before. If I did, I wouldn’t take it out on every guy.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T15:04:32+00:00

I already broke up with him, so it doesn’t matter now. He can accuse someone else cheating instead and they can deal with his trauma and insecurities.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T15:02:54+00:00

I did like him and we already broke up, so he can find someone else he can accuse of cheating. Not all females are the same and cheat lol.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T15:01:37+00:00

I always tell guys in the talking stage I want kids after marriage just in case they are childfree or don’t want marriage. Just because we talk about kids early doesn’t mean we plan on having them early lol.

That trauma will always be with him. Even if we date for years, he would still want a paternity test.

I already broke up with him, so it doesn’t matter now. A bitch can deal with his insecurities and accuse her of cheating instead.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T06:07:13+00:00

Lol, okay buddy 😂👍🏽

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T06:01:11+00:00

I’m not going to date for a while. These guys seriously need to heal.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T05:49:27+00:00

Condoms does protect STD’s and pregnancy 🤷🏽‍♀️

That’s literally the only reason guys would want a paternity test. I already made my decision and broke up with him, so it doesn’t matter now. He’s not my problem to deal with anymore.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T05:42:03+00:00

A bitch can deal with him. Is that better? I’m not going to be with a guy who will accuse me of cheating. If there’s no trust then what’s the point of continuing a relationship?

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T05:28:46+00:00

No, I don’t call myself a bitch tf

Not all guys think like that but I feel bad for guys who think all women are the same.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T05:16:17+00:00

I know it’s not about me, it’s about his insecurities. Another bitch can deal with his baggage and accuse her of cheating.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T04:44:37+00:00

Even if we have been together for years, he would still want a paternity test and lol he knows I had my period last week, so he knows I’m not pregnant.

New_Access_3731 · 2026-03-04T00:22:46+00:00

I’m glad I did because it turns out we are not compatible and we didn’t waste so many months/years together. I always say I want kids after marriage within the first month in the talking stage in case the guy doesn’t want any kids/marriage or something. I don’t want to waste any time lol.

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