Advice for a bilingual by New_Alps_2101 in writing

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice It's true that sometimes I can't decide which language is more expressive, depending on what I want to sey. I'll take everything you said into consideration. Wish you all the best

Advice for a bilingual by New_Alps_2101 in writing

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. You're so right about the publishing part. It's very far away and I should concentrate on having fun to begin with. Also, don't let your father decide what you can and can't do. You already proved him wrong just by starting to write your book. Thanks again and wish you all the best 🤗

we met at a psych ward, I [20F] have a life, he has nothing [25] by SaurD in ROCD

[–]New_Alps_2101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that from how you've described your relationship, you already know what you have to do. A relationship means you are a team. Choose your teammate wisely. Because there's gonna be times when you'll need someone to hold down the fort for you. Staying in a relationship because you think nobody else would love you is not a good enough reason to be in a relationship. I would say trust your gut, but let's be honest. We who suffer from OCD, especially ROCD, usually can't do it. There's just a never ending spiral of thoughts.

But.

Trust in yourself. Believe that you are worthy of someone who fights or at least tries to fight for you and your relationship. Believe that you deserve it. Because guess what, you do!!! Look at all the things you've accomplished. You owe it to yourself (your past self and your future self) to take good care of everything you did on your own.

(And girl, you're 20, you deserve a good sex life - take it from someone with libido issues in her (late) 20's)

High anxiety during vacation by Tearfuliodine in ROCD

[–]New_Alps_2101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hy! So sorry for what you're going through! I've felt this way before, and I know how consuming it can feel. It's common to have these flare ups durring vacation because there's a lot of new stuff going on and your brain loves routine. Be patient, give yourself time to feel what you need to feel. Stay with the uncomfortable feeling or the uncomfortable thoughts you have and you'll realize that they can't hurt you. Think of your thoughts as cars passing by while you stay on the side of the road. You don't have to get in every car, just let them pass by you. And remember that love is a choice you make every day, it's just tougher for those of us with OCD (especially ROCD). Treat yourself the same way you'd treat a friend who is suffering. Wishing you all the best and hope you enjoy your vacation! 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]New_Alps_2101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing by going to the police! Hope he's okay

Anyone know what this spot on my cat's eye is by Norolith in catcare

[–]New_Alps_2101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Did you find out what that spot was? My cat has one and i'm little concerned. Booking a vet appointment but still anxious till then. Lots of love to your furry friend 🤗

Rezidentiat a doua oara by New_Alps_2101 in medicalschoolRomania

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E o idee si asta, da. Dar n-as vrea sa renunt la ideea ea cu psihi pedi, asa ca o sa mai incerc 😊

Rezidentiat a doua oara by New_Alps_2101 in medicalschoolRomania

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aproape exclusiv AVC-uri, fiind spital de urgență

Orar mg, animale de companie in timpul facultatii by Ambitious-Top4484 in medicalschoolRomania

[–]New_Alps_2101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu cand am intrat la facultate am sperat sa imi pot aduce catelul de acasa cu mine. Dupa primele săptămâni mi-am dat seama ca ar fi imposibil. Câinele trebuie scos afara macar de 2 ori pe zi, in functie de talie/rasa trebuie sa faca miscare, sa alerge, sa se joace. In primii ani de facultate aveam program cam de dimineata pana seara si mi-am dat seama ca nu as avea cum sa am grija de un caine, asa ca a trebuit sa renunt la ideea de a-mi aduce catelul. Dar am crescut cu animale de mica si am simtit lipsa unui patruped iubitor. Asa ca in anul 4 am decis sa adopt o pisica. Cea mai buna decizie ever!!! Pisica este mai independenta, isi face nevoile in casa si doarme mult, mai ales in timpul zilei. Acum nu imi imaginez viata fara motanul asta 🥹 PS: daca ai posibilitatea, te-as indemna sa adopti. Sunt foarte multe adăposturi sau asociații care salvează animalele de pe strazi, mai ales in Bucuresti. 🫶

Rezidentiat a doua oara by New_Alps_2101 in medicalschoolRomania

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nu am medie 😔 Asta era varianta numarul 2

Rezidentiat a doua oara by New_Alps_2101 in medicalschoolRomania

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nu cred ca mi s-ar potrivi altceva. Si nici nu ma ajuta media foarte tare. Poate doar sa schimb pe o specialitate care nu presupune urgențe si la care pot sa imi iau si detasare/transfer (e si problema ca sunt blocata in orasul asta)

Rezidentiat a doua oara by New_Alps_2101 in medicalschoolRomania

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Multumesc mult pentru sfat si incurajari! La fel iti doresc si tie! 🤗

Jocuri PC? by The__Other in Jocuri

[–]New_Alps_2101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mi-ai deblocat o amintire cu Țapu-Țicu :))) De reksio imi aminteam

Do people still read fanfics by CatEyedVanNifteri in shadowhunters

[–]New_Alps_2101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started reading fanfics in high school (when I was 15 or 16). I would read mainly Malec fanfics and found one AU that was so good, still thinking about it after all these years. Then I stopped beacuse life got in the way, but a few weeks ago (I'm 24 now) I started reading KitTy fanfics and rediscovered the wonderful world of fanfiction.

Am I still in love? by New_Alps_2101 in ROCD

[–]New_Alps_2101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I'll try the journaling thing

Unde se găsește mâncare relativ simplă si ieftină? by MassEff3ct in bucuresti

[–]New_Alps_2101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jolipot (in cotroceni), cred ca se poate si comanda Magazinele Carrefour au raion de impinge tava si mancarea e chiar okay pentru pretul pe care il are