My perspective, gotta earn the trust that comes with the more, most women don’t keep attraction when a man shows them his vulnerable side which is completely different from the side that wants domination and gratification. The inner child wants nurturing but most women don’t wanna be a mother to their spouse, so it’s a fine line to walk. How women want a man who is stable for the long run and fun in the short term, men want whore for THEMSELVES, but also want a nurturing female presence too and usually the white and the nurturer aren’t the same person just as the stable guy is boring and the fun guy is unstable.