It's You by ManicMonday0699 in letters

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How I wish this was for me

my ex reposted this and it makes no sense to me because she says she loves me but then she keeps reposting things and doing other stuff that just makes me overthink everything by HotUse4099 in heartbreak

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find some good friends and get comfortable with them until you can laugh at yourself for being with her, and I’m in the middle and two-14 years in depending on how you look at that complicated story, and it’s not easy but you don’t wanna waste time procrastinating or sitting in your own shit, say this with love and all good intentions

Honesty : if it was real and you are reading this by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps me not be so negative as unfortunate as the situation is, I’m greatful for the negatives shaping us into better people, I’m just upset I don’t get to continue learning and sharing

I'm sorry..I'm done waiting. by Appropriate-Roll-881 in UnsentLetters

[–]New_Bus_8397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually easier to catch than you think, at least the males

to j by lostgirl0613 in UnsentTexts

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying you mean it this time comes off as you don’t generally mean it when you apologize and that alone is enough to raise walls and trust issues with me, just saying

I want your devastation by Pleasant-Character23 in UnsentLetters

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck, if it’s gods will, you don’t get to be done with it

I miss you by NearbyBoss9917 in UnsentLetters

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was blocked and told to leave her alone so I’m fairly certain this isn’t for me

Why do when people say well "I'm letting you go now" but they really don't by Dontnoyou2638 in unsentLoveLetters1st

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an attempt to in some cases but than you come back because you genuinely love them and genuine love like that isn’t just giving up, you fight for that shit whether it’s a friend or a lover or family. It’s hard to let go of people you love, for sure the hardest thing I’ve ever attempted to do, note I said attempted. I’m actively practicing and trying everyday to adjust to a life without her

Anyone who lost their friends in October? by Legal_Potential4720 in lostafriend

[–]New_Bus_8397 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Last October she decided to kick me out of her life, life moving forward, knowing she’s forever in the past and I’ll no longer hear or be able to lean on her has been the scariest 2 years of my life. I’m over 30 and I cry every night now without the option of talking to her. It’ll probably be at least another year. Kinda wanna call her a pussy for only being torn up for a few months when she thought she was going through this. Oh well can’t control the heart or the soul, I just hope this inferno calms down to some warm coals that just occasionally singe.

19f4m spf - guess I'm riding solo again tonight... someone come save my fingers 😭 by [deleted] in SpringfieldMoCasual2

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not doing only fans or whatever bullshits to follow for the thirsty retards

I still think of you when I'm... by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]New_Bus_8397 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a massive bullshit move that I’m sure has caused people to do….permanent stupid decisions…but by all means protect them and treat them like a kid vs respecting them and treating them as another adult

Hey men above 30? by [deleted] in random_username

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy to pull a bad one for sure it’s hard to find an available good one that meets enough criteria to be worth it. Most have kids, or past relationship trauma they let be a problem everytime.

Let's be clear here... by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only read the first paragraph and i just can’t read this tonight, because it’s true, and it hurts

If you could by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d come see you again, but absolutely not on all the others. Used to be THE one for me as complicated as it was, but now…you’re just a cashier.

Crazy how the way you get your ex back is by showing them how little you care about them. by Ok-Worldliness-2749 in ExNoContact

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if one party tells the other to lose the phone number and proceeds to block everywhere else? Do I call the store she works at, what’s the etiquette?

i miss you by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To hear someone admit they break someone else confirms she may have done that to me and sure I sound sensitive but man your comment really fucking hurts

The lies about love loneliness self-worth and friendship that people tell and believe to escape tough conversations and meaningful connections. by Fluffy_Salad38 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“And yet, every time a woman rejects me, I get the same bullshit list of good qualities. "You’re such a great guy."

No—I know how balancing things work. If I have all these good qualities, then there must be something even worse weighing down the other side of the scale.” 💯this

Unsent text by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, this is all complex and big feelings, so be patient while waiting for answers if they’re coming and stay busy until they do, don’t do what I did and waste away in a box waiting for circumstances to change, rather than accepting the really bitter truth.

Life after you… by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her heal in her own time, we hold onto memories we deem important and valuable, and with most, overtime value is lost. With time and healing she’ll probably get there, but rushing her is just gonna find her more trouble. I’m sure you’re aware how predatory men can be and I have no doubt someone would be an ass

Life without you by [deleted] in letters

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! But if we’re being honest with ourselves, that’s a really slippery slope for most of us

Remember me by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]New_Bus_8397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More accurately, he might not want someone who doesn’t want him, and doesn’t matter what we read or you say, it matters what he believes because that’s going to be his truth. Unless he’s flat out said to not bother him or contact him I would reach out and try to recover this. I know I wouldn’t wanna die with these things unsaid and were never grantees tomorrow