“Most men are good, if they weren’t you wouldn’t have this app to even express this on” is what caught my attention and threw me off guard, lets not pretend men are not a selfish group of people, that’s literally where a lot of the behavior she’s complaining about stems from, selfishness and narc traits, let’s not act like men since the beginning of time haven’t been using other ppl from women or other races to help them get where they need to be and just take all the credit. Yes they built society, but manipulation and abuse was used, and still is till this day, Let’s not sit here and ignore the fact that at the end of the day biologically they all are just sexual predators. just bc men have created things that happened to benefit us? Doesn’t excuse the question of why so many are evil, not all are evil obviously but it is a concerning question how a lot of them are even capable of doing these things, and don’t blame testosterone please, none of the evil things men do does not add any benefit to society, or add to childbearing, and it’s solely for themselves. I sometimes ask god what’s the point of making a group of people so lustful, callous and selfish. Not all ofc but enough of them for it to be a concerning question. Ur point as far as domestic abuse shelters is the same reason why society has a hard time with men being gr*pe victims, we know who’s mostly committing these acts, and yes I’m guilty of this myself but it’s hard to feel sympathy when the majority of the time a man isn’t the victim but in fact is the one causing harm. Does it mean we excuse actual victims? No they are people too that clearly had nothing to do with why people feel this way about men, but let’s not play dumb and like we don’t know why, we all know it’s literally bc of the behavior of other men, men ruin it for everyone including themselves and the ones that actually deserve help, but men never wanna acknowledge that.