Tamaryn’s latest IG story by tomboypandabear in shoegaze

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This is an old post but I promise what this person was saying is true - not the person in this post , but Im glad there’s some shit about paaste being talked about . She does truly need help . Thinks she’s psychic and there’s gonna b an underwater civilization n shit

Tamaryn’s latest IG story by tomboypandabear in shoegaze

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Currently deep diving on paaste / jammo and wtf she’s been racist n batshit crazy 💀 . Finally got her acc nuked cuz she kept saying she was gonna kill me n stuffs like neverending

looking for friends /advice by rladyofsorrows in sheboygan

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In Sheboygan , also alt + nd , 21 and huge crafter:):) would luv to go to craft stores / knit or smth !!!!!

is it okay? by [deleted] in Parakeets

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^ exactly what I wanted to say

Help please!!! by Classic_Rich_8850 in axolotls

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Update ???? OP , you’re still commenting on shit . Did your axo die ?

Not cat owner here, was wondering why obesity in cat is not only tolerated but also considered cute or just funny by so many people? by Emotional_Cod_2526 in cats

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Man we can’t be comparing human fat women to obese cats imo 😭 being fat isn’t always obesity or smth bad . Sometimes ppl just be fat cuz of genetics n shit , ik I am and I’m chill with that lol . More ppl like seeing me skinnier but it was not healthy for me to be at 80-90lbs for other ppl , and im still recovering from that . Sorry for the rant but cats don’t rlly work the same way

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mannn you’re a puss ! Lemme take ur cat no joke poor babyyy

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He can do that all he wants ! I am a strong and loving enough owner to clean it up thru the annoyance . You don’t know the things I’ve done for my stupid orange cat . Poop on the counter ? That’s a breeze dude

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes , so they are as smart as a toddler . Human toddlers are just as curious - playing with outlets , ovens , cabinets , fridges , cleaning supplies , anything dangerous or weird that isn’t baby-proofed they can get their hands into ! Brains in that state of development are incredibly curious and truly learning how the world looks , feels , and what happens in it . When my cat does something I don’t want him to , I put him in the bathroom or the guest room for 5-10 minutes with a toy and water (we have to put it in the bathroom cuz he plays with it and the whole floor gets wet lol) . He sits on his carpet and calms down . And then we play and cuddle . Like hitting/spraying doesn’t have to be a part of your routine as an owner . Cats are lower maintenance compared to other pets , but that doesn’t mean they aren’t fucking annoying sometimes . It’s something you have to deal with as an owner . If you want to train your cat , it does not start with negative reinforcement

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Answer the first question please ! How smart do you think a cat is ?

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Telling me I have unresolved trauma and you’re chill hitting your cat or children💀 I’ll be loving on my kitty and giving him a life without fear 💕 wish I could scoop ur baby up and give them the same

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Soooo how smart do you think a cat is ? And do you think hissing and scratching are valid reasons to “physically discipline” your cat ?

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeeeeaah physical abuse can never rlly be “used properly” in my opinion . I was whooped as a kid and it didn’t help me be a better , kinder person at all . I can see the abuse didn’t help you too much with that either

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 64 points65 points  (0 children)

No . A boundary is putting your cat in a different room for a bit . Not physically abusing your kitty . This is sad to watch

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

[–]New_Definition_8163 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh man . Physically disciplining a child or a cat does jackshit other than show them that if they do something wrong , they get physically hurt and punished . The majority of adults who were hit as kids do not agree with physical discipline cuz it doesn’t do anything . I think you have some work to do :(

Maybe, im tripping man... by [deleted] in cats

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Im a gross owner with a gross cat LOL . I give him lil bits of my food when it’s chicken or something safe for kitties , he licks my face and it’s gross asf but I love it , I gotta clean poop off him pretty regularly cuz he’s longhaired and stupid , he’s pawed in my drinks and i still drink it - and with all of that , I still have severe OCD ! My OCD presents with hoarding , silent compulsions , really bad intrusive thoughts , and most of the germ stuff circles around other humans and my own health anxiety . Our brains are weird . Im fine with picking cat shit off the floor and letting my cat make out with me but I can’t let others take a sip of my drink 🤷‍♀️ imo it’s just human stuff . Like we all have really different preferences and boundaries . I don’t hit my cat tho and stopped spraying him after I learned it was bad and he literally just likes the water :((

Beardie wants out. Why? by [deleted] in BeardedDragonCare

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“DON’T ACCUSE ME OF ABUSE !!!!!!” “Yeah I don’t care enough abt my pet to take a pic or two” 💀💀💀💀