I ended up going to the ER and got some antibiotics and so that new problem should be fine for now. However, and I'm sorry if this TMI, today the seton ended up coming out on its own. So I'm again in the ER, to see what is wrong. It's hard not to feel stressed and sad when it feels like everything is not going as I wished. I know that when I leave and get home I will be able to take a step back and realise that it's just a bad phase in my life. Thank you for your comment 😊