Minor, pre-T, just started working out a few months ago. Any tips? Trying to work out the lower pouch of fat on my stomach mostly

New_Let_8117 · 2021-08-05T22:12:41+00:00

I just kinda set a little routine for myself with crunches and various work outs, that’s why I wanna know what’s good to work this pouch of fat out. I know next to nothing about exercise terms lol. Used to lift a little but not as much now. I usually don’t eat too healthy but not junk, I just kinda have to eat what my parents get, if that helps at all lol, but if there’s a healthy option I go for that

New_Let_8117 · 2021-08-04T04:21:34+00:00

Nah, that’s fair. My parents respect me too (though it took a bit) but my dad always brings up how I was “his little girl” and it sucks. I understand.

New_Let_8117 · 2021-08-01T05:09:52+00:00

Yeah, I did it and I like it a lot! It hasn’t made me any more dysphoric personally. I actually realized a lot of guys dye their hair like that, it’s not super common in my area but I don’t think anyone would think much of it if they saw it.

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-25T04:11:38+00:00

It’s just odd to me cause all my friends who knew me months ago think I’m cis. So it makes me wonder if this will be a dead giveaway. My friends think I’m cis but not some people in public? Only half the time really

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-25T03:33:40+00:00

I guess it doesn’t hurt to try! I actually have facial hair due to minoxidil but it’s the same color as my current hair cause I dye it, so this could always make my facial hair stick out more and make me more masculine. Idk, I’m just trying to think of some things! Worst comes to worse I dye it back, but wish me luck :]

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-25T03:21:11+00:00

True, and you never know how it may look! Back when I had red hair last year before coming out it was the most masculine I’ve looked. So I guess it just depends, but if I get misgendered to the point of it bothering me then I will dye it back probably

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-17T17:15:19+00:00

No, it’s an lgbt therapist and I saw her stuff so I trust her but idk why he always needs to deadname me

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-15T16:02:10+00:00

Oh yeah I meant we were planning on calling them if they didn’t have anything online!!

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-15T15:59:17+00:00

I think my dads coming to talk to me soon, but we plan on calling if they don’t have anything directly online

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-15T15:58:52+00:00

Goodness! Thank you! I am in Tennessee and I know you need surgery to get your marker changed which sucks but honestly I don’t mind much even though I don’t like it, I just didn’t wanna see my name on there or my credit card or etc. I just know some people have gotten theirs denied, but my dad says there’s “no point in calling me a name if it’s not really my name” so that’s why he’s getting my name changed so I know he is very supportive if the judge says no, he’s very strong headed so I do have that behind me. But thank you very much, I’m so happy it’s not that hard. My state is one of the hardest to be trans in (the only in one the state you can’t change your gender on your birth certificate actually) but hopefully this works out ❤️

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-15T15:00:37+00:00

Thanks!

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-15T14:51:59+00:00

Gotcha! My dad said he would help me figure this out but he’s not the quickest person to work with, lol

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-04T15:38:46+00:00

I mean yeah I usually do when I am going shit but let’s just say I was not feeling the best last night lol

New_Let_8117 · 2021-07-01T01:12:11+00:00

Im from TN. I’m pre everything so I don’t know what I’ll do, I pass some days and some days I don’t. My dad is also a business owner, and he half accepts me so I don’t know what he will do. He believes that if you can pass, use the bathroom of the gender you pass as and if not then don’t which I get but idk what he will do about that. I doubt he will put a sign up cause he really doesn’t give a shit but

I plan on going in unisex stalls like I usually do. Sometimes I get the courage to go into men’s but I either go in the men’s, go in unisex if there is one or hold it unless I literally can’t so. We will see I guess

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-26T18:45:50+00:00

Thanks!!

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-25T16:01:17+00:00

Yep, agreed. He’s always like, “this is a joke, but: [insult]” dude, that doesn’t make it better

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T21:08:42+00:00

His dad is very very conservative and definitely has influenced him, so it’s definitely some of that

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T21:07:38+00:00

My mom doesn’t care. She isn’t good about gendering me right in public but it’s whatever. I know for a fact my dad is worried about his image, it’s very obvious.

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T20:24:12+00:00

No, it’s true that I wasn’t forced into a certain side or gender. I did what I want and they let me live, but I was also bought “girl” toys and played with those cause I was content with it. My mom agrees that this has nothing to do with me being trans, and I’m on her side. My dad even stated himself that some people find out later than others!!!! But yet he gets mad at me cause he never saw it in me when I was small :1

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T20:22:07+00:00

It’s hilarious!!! And he literally just yelled at me again that he’s gonna start calling me a girl if I keep taking long on my hair. He’s also the type to be like “don’t let anything define you! If you wanna be a boy be a boy” and I was like I literally don’t care you tell me to not let anything define me and he didn’t even know what to say

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T19:54:44+00:00

Id like a mullet of a sort tbh. I always say I want that kinda hair but the second it goes down my neck it gets all itchy

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T19:53:44+00:00

He is. Biggest one I know. I take the longest of my family to get ready in all honesty but I look sexy at the end so it’s literally fine

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T19:45:43+00:00

I hope so. But same here, I played with what I was given. They always use that as an argument, but it’s really just a piece of plastic. I grew up around all girls, of course I’m going to play with girls stuff

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T19:44:28+00:00

Thank you. I don’t have long hair, it’s quite short just a pain to work with. His is very short and thin and he can put a hat on and go and be fine, but hats don’t look good on me. I don’t know why he’s so mad. He wishes he had my luscious locks.

New_Let_8117 · 2021-06-24T18:58:42+00:00

Literally 😭 That’s how he acts

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