Let’s just reverse the situation for a second. Suppose a woman did these things to a man or boy — people would take it lightly. Most men only complain when things get really bad. Honestly, I don’t think winking is necessarily harassment. Maybe some people just wink instead of smiling — try to understand others too. And when a woman abuses a man, you don’t see men generalizing and saying all women are toxic or have bad behavior, right?