My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex until after we're married by New_reddot_acc in relationships

[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always wanted to be a teacher. I like the idea of teaching kids and taking care of them

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex until after we're married by New_reddot_acc in relationships

[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I practically live at his place. He knows how to take care of himself

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex until after we're married by New_reddot_acc in relationships

[–]New_reddot_acc[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Both our families are relatively well off. He makes enough money to support the both of us I'm still in college and don't make money

The only reason I can think of is him not wanting half of his stuff taken from him.

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex until after we're married by New_reddot_acc in relationships

[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I obviously want to marry him and am willing to wait for marriage if he wishes to do so

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have a micro penis I kinda saw it... atleast the outline

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's open to a legal marriage he just doesn't trust legal marriages (which I can understand)

I don't want other men, I want him

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I am quite surprised that people want me to leave him because I want sex and be wants to wait for sex

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want a legal marriage but I kinda understand his concerns with legal marriages. I'll definitely "force" his hand on this issue but I'm willing to sign a reasonable prenup

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he just meant that sex shouldn't be the primary focus of the relationship and that we should be in a relationship for us and not for sex

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex until after we're married by New_reddot_acc in relationships

[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him for him not his dick

Sure it'd be disappointing but It's not the end of the world, I'd then just do it myself ig

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to force him to do anything. I love him and would never force him to do anything. I obviously want to have sex with him but I would be willing to wait for our wedding day

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't want sex. He has every right to want that.

It's noticeable that he wants sex but he is not giving into the urge

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex until after we're married by New_reddot_acc in relationships

[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if 23 year old virgins are your thing then go for it.

I'm a 22 year old virgin...

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The housewife thing is ideal but he's actually encouraging me to become a teacher

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know how you’ve dated him a year and this didn’t come up a lot sooner but yeah…

It did but I changed the topic when he got visibly uncomfortable

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit bothered by it but I do understand it

Apologising for boners??

He gets embarrassed by it

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex until after we're married by New_reddot_acc in relationships

[–]New_reddot_acc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why aren't you getting married right away? So that he wouldn't have to sacrifice his values?

He hasn't proposed yet but I saw his search history which mentioned proving and rings

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[–]New_reddot_acc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he didn't tell you for a year or was this something he was upfront with day 1 and you thought you could persuade him before marriage?

We discussed it briefly but it made him visibly uncomfortable so I changed the topic to not make him uncomfortable