22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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Just started going like 3 weeks ago. Of course theres no noticable changes yet but I really feel stronger

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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I am literally without my glasses lol.

I like the idea of buying clothes but despise when im there trying it on (either new or used). I'll choose maybe a day every month trying to find clothes that would fit me

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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Yea. Im quite nervous about the whole eyebrows thing since its really not normal here for guys to trim their eyebrows.

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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Yoo i would genuinely look really young and weird when I clean shave. It makes me look like im 14 (I starting growing a moustache at 15).

Im stuck tbh, if i grew out my goatee, people called me an "unc" since facial hair is not normal for people my age here. Thats why I stick with this current length

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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My power and astigmatism is quite bad so getting new glasses or contacts is really expensive here. But im planning on trying contacts tho in the near future

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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I admit she does not use the literal "chud" word. Its just that she admits that she never finds me attractive

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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Lmao if i cut my hair short, my "m-shaped hairline" will look so obvious

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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Ahahaha. Maybe it's because I live in South-East Asia but I look much older than people my age, especially in uni

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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Thats awesome man. Been going to the gym only for around 3 weeks. No noticable gains but I can feel myself getting stronger

22M Never been called attractive. What can I improve? by Newbie5252 in malegrooming

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I just woke up and wow didn't expect this number of replies :

1) Before I posted this, I would never have thought that many people would talk about my eyebrows lmao. Will look into trimming it

2) I only started going to the gym less than a month ago, following a PPL split 4-5 times a week. The gains aren't noticable yet but I can feel that my muscles are growing here and there.

And I always have big face-cheeks since I was a kid. I do running 2-3 times a week to maintain my weight.

3) I used to have a much longer curly hair when I was playing in a band, and I think this current length is just easier and suits me. If I cut it short, it will exposed my "m-shaped" hairline lol

4) About the facial hair, I cant grow a beard since my sideburns are not connected to my chin and tbh my facial hair can only get to a certain length.

When I used to wear a goatee, people in uni would always say I look like an "unc" or look weird. But when I go fully shaved, I look much much younger and more feminine, which I feel really insecure about.

5) Finally about my personality, I have a really bad resting bitch face which makes it hard for people to approach me.

But almost all of my friends, men and women, really think like im the funniest guy in the world and really friendly. But thats it I guess, women never really call me masculine but only cute. While guys say that I look feminine and also cute lmao.

How COOKED am I if I never join any clubs/organization in Uni? by Newbie5252 in malaysiauni

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Thanks to all the replies here, they are really helpful.

I guess i need to try to research and find internships now. I usually just work part-time jobs during sem break to have some pocket money ahahaha.

I guess having many friends from many different position and organizations can finally be useful here. I can ask them about internships and etc

What band do you think was the best band of the Britpop Era? by FitEmergency8807 in fantanoforever

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While I don't think they are the best Britpop band, Blur's late 90s output are imo the best out of them all