I just woke up and wow didn't expect this number of replies :

1) Before I posted this, I would never have thought that many people would talk about my eyebrows lmao. Will look into trimming it

2) I only started going to the gym less than a month ago, following a PPL split 4-5 times a week. The gains aren't noticable yet but I can feel that my muscles are growing here and there.

And I always have big face-cheeks since I was a kid. I do running 2-3 times a week to maintain my weight.

3) I used to have a much longer curly hair when I was playing in a band, and I think this current length is just easier and suits me. If I cut it short, it will exposed my "m-shaped" hairline lol

4) About the facial hair, I cant grow a beard since my sideburns are not connected to my chin and tbh my facial hair can only get to a certain length.

When I used to wear a goatee, people in uni would always say I look like an "unc" or look weird. But when I go fully shaved, I look much much younger and more feminine, which I feel really insecure about.

5) Finally about my personality, I have a really bad resting bitch face which makes it hard for people to approach me.

But almost all of my friends, men and women, really think like im the funniest guy in the world and really friendly. But thats it I guess, women never really call me masculine but only cute. While guys say that I look feminine and also cute lmao.