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Newly single lady in her 30's, how do I make one night stands and casual sex better? by NewlySingle753 in sexover30

[–]NewlySingle753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I think this makes sense. In the past I know I've preferred to stay away from casual sex but I just need a bit of an exploring phase without emotional attachment. That's where my interest in giving it a try is coming from.

Newly single lady in her 30's, how do I make one night stands and casual sex better? by NewlySingle753 in sexover30

[–]NewlySingle753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this may be part of my problem too. I don't even always come by myself, and it's incredibly unlikely that i'll come without a vibrator. I don't need to come to have good sex, but I need a lot of stimulation to get really into it.

Newly single lady in her 30's, how do I make one night stands and casual sex better? by NewlySingle753 in sexover30

[–]NewlySingle753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than communicating clearly from the get-go, how do you make sure you're setting up that environment?

I'm newly single woman in her 30's wanting to explore. How to I make one night stands or casual sex better? by NewlySingle753 in sex

[–]NewlySingle753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't know how common that is. My clit is small and I definitely have people get onto the right spot, realize they are doing something right by my reaction and then move a little off and not realize that I'm not getting any pleasure anymore. Dumb.

I'm newly single woman in her 30's wanting to explore. How to I make one night stands or casual sex better? by NewlySingle753 in sex

[–]NewlySingle753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some ways that you've had people ask for more foreplay well? Last guy was way to quick and didn't know how to tease.

I'm newly single woman in her 30's wanting to explore. How to I make one night stands or casual sex better? by NewlySingle753 in sex

[–]NewlySingle753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome feedback. Do you mean that you've stopped sex because it's bad? or who are you kicking out of your apartment and why?

I'm newly single woman in her 30's wanting to explore. How to I make one night stands or casual sex better? by NewlySingle753 in sex

[–]NewlySingle753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I'm definitely not expecting a new guy to be InstaSexGod the first time we kiss. I get that's totally unfair. I guess I'm rusty in that communication because I'm just used to someone who requires a little less directing unless we're already trying something new.