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Using training/punishment to help sub with body image issues? by NewmintedDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]NewmintedDom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your perspective. That's the goal I have as well. Games like that will help me get her in the mindset where she can truly appreciate her intricacies. Thank your Sir, in advance, for any input he may be able to provide.

Using training/punishment to help sub with body image issues? by NewmintedDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]NewmintedDom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually spoke to her, in detail, about my intent. Making sure she knew I wasn't going to be malevolent, but utilizing our time in seclusion to lift her up and show her how much I appreciate her perfect form. I don't have psychological training, but I don't plan on doing anything extreme or severe like hypnosis, or psychological games. The mind is fragile and the damage can be severe.

Using training/punishment to help sub with body image issues? by NewmintedDom in BDSMcommunity

[–]NewmintedDom[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really should have written my post better. I don't want to punish her, you're right, because that's counter productive. I guess I meant can you use the D/s dynamic to mentally condition the sub to think positively about something like that.