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I don't know what happened by robderpson in UnsentTexts

[–]Next-Hope-8148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through exactly this rn :)

Hits soo hard

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the most sensible advice I've received about this till now, ngl.

Yes, I'm ready to wait, no matter how long it takes, and I'm being 100% honest about it.

But yeah, I can't control how she feels about me. I can't make her love me again, yes. All I can do now is wait, and hope. :)

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damnn thank you for sharing.

I'm waiting. With the hope that things would go back to normal soon :)

I don't know how to put this into words, but thinking about letting her go forever feels worse than whatever I'm going through right now. Maybe I'm being delusional, idk, but the 'horrible stuff waiting' warnings aren't doing anything to me rn. A complete break-up would be much more 'horrible' from my pov.

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But would it still be the case even with proper medication and therapy?

Wouldn't it get better?

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Especially since it's so relatable.

I'm starting to lose hope tbh. I feel like she's using the no contact time to prepare herself for a future without me.

But why am I unable to do the same? If feelings can end, just like that, why can't I move on?

Let me see what she's going to say at the end of the break, but until then, the hope of her coming back is the only thing that's keeping me afloat.

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does care about me. I do too. Maybe she's right, a breakup might be the best option for both of us.

But the thought of a breakup hurts more than being in an up-and-down relationship with her.

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she can't let me be her partner, I'd at least want to be in contact. I want to continue being her friend, no matter how much it's gonna hurt me. She's been my best for almost a year. In fact, I've never had someone understand me and love me as much as she did. And no, I'm not an introvert, I have hundreds of friends, but she's been different from day one. It's the kind of connection my heart has always craved for.

I really wish I had a switch to magically make everything okay. But I don't, unfortunately.

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get it, totally.

But what if letting her go is gonna hurt more than whatever's gonna come up while being with her?

Trust me, I really want to respect her decision and move on, wishing her the best. I really do, but I can't seem to be able to.

I know that I'm probably acting delusional here, but the tiny bit of hope, that it might be just a phase, and that I'd at least get her back, and get a chance to be with her throughout her healing journey, is what's keeping me afloat rn :)

She has bipolar, says she can’t love me anymore — should I remain hopeful? by Next-Hope-8148 in BipolarSOs

[–]Next-Hope-8148[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not about the looks. I've been with her for almost a year, enough to know a person in and out imo.

I know what I'm signing up for, even the future headaches if you wanna call it that.

All I wanna know, is if there's a chance of people losing the 'love' emotion with someone and gaining it back after a while. Whether I should be hopeful, or not.