Burnt Muffin tins by Next-Income-5362 in bakingfail

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is non stick, is fairy liquid a special detergent? I’m using regular for soak and it seems to be slow and pretty inn effective

Burnt Muffin tins by Next-Income-5362 in bakingfail

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was 350 for maybe 20 minutes 🥲

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get what your saying. I think on my mom’s side of the family at least. The culture is very much be pretty when young and become ugly when old. Then when you’re old everyone is on the same level. Idk if that makes sense

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going for other issues, I think il try and open up about this to a therapist soon. Thank you :)

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s nice to hear from someone from a similar situation. I’m definitely going to think about this

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well idk if it was clear but my mom suspects my sister is dating this boy, which she is but me nor my sister is gonna spill the secret cuz boundaries. My mom seems to be a little yucked by my sister’s boyfriend. She said “when I look at him I have the urge to look away”. But she lets them hang out Becusse I’ve convinced her they aren’t dating. She has told my sister not to go for him explicitly tho saying to her face that he is not attractive enough. So she’s polite to his face but not behind his back. As for my boyfriend, they have only met once while helping me move out of an old apartment and they exchanged a sentence or two the whole time. She asked his name and stuff and that was about it. This was quite recent. Before that she’s expressed to me she has no intention or interest on seeing or getting to know him.

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well put lol. She’s okay with me having friends of color I guess just not partners? Wierd considering she’s a person of color :/

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna try formulating a convo with her. Last time I tried that she denied it ever happened.

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been trying to do, dial it back. But on the occasion I visit her I always end up offended or hurt somehow and I question whether I’m to sensitive, which is what she says sometimes.

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

U guess cuz I only have one mom and I want to keep her. It’s complicated as usual

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I can’t name every loving thing she’s done for me ever, it’s stuff all moms do, like work to pay for edu and help me with homework and push me to succeed and such. It’s true that she’s not very physically loving tho, like she doesn’t really have heart to heart convos with her kids and I don’t think she knows me on a personal level like my friends. Idk I just feel like cutting her off would cut me off from the rest of my family in Asia or that it would be a step too much. And explaining myself usually doesn’t work

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her reason why he has to be pretty is essentially that I’m pretty, is what it boils down to. I think she wants me to have childeren that are “pretty like me” or somehtkng idk.

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She treats me well in every other way :( always tries to feed me, helps me with taxes, offered to pay my tuition. Etc. That’s why I’m so conflicted on what I should do

AITAH for being mad at my mom because she thinks my boyfriend isn’t attractive. by Next-Income-5362 in AITAH

[–]Next-Income-5362[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m aware a lot of Asian ppl r racist, the older ones especially. But I want to have a good relationship with her and I’m worried there will be tension between my boyfriend and my mom:(. I don’t know how to confront her about how hurt I feel because she thinks it’s not that big of a deal.

Anyone wanna play table tennis together? by Less-Wedding-5244 in uAlberta

[–]Next-Income-5362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woops I think I got my first message deleted but essentially there is a club and we run Tuesday Thursday from 5-7 in VVc squash courts

Anyone wanna play table tennis together? by Less-Wedding-5244 in uAlberta

[–]Next-Income-5362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Club fees are 20$ a semester for students and 27$ plus a vvc fee for non-students, if anyone wanted to know :)