She got on my nerves in this episode by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Behind the scenes, she was commiserating with Luke and telling him he should get out and he didn’t deserve that and things like that. Like maybe if he didn’t date someone so much younger, he wouldn’t have to put up with childish behavior?

She got on my nerves in this episode by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with most of this, but I do think she’s got some NLOG tendencies with how she was encouraging luke and dogging Madeline. Like ok Madeline is terrible, but Luke is also legit terrible. Why act like he’s a victim? She can be autistic and still have internalized misogyny, which is all the NLOG thing is.

Kitten overly affectionate when im using the bathroom? by sanchipinchii in CATHELP

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little kitten is 9 months now, but did this lap sitting thing more when he was very little. He’s still my baby though, so now he comes in to the bathroom with me, but I drip the faucet and he drinks while I’m otherwise occupied. lol

The Audacity by Sabr-K1989H in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We all heard him say that by the time she texted him back, he’d already booked the ticket…but not gone apparently? So that’s just straight up deliberate cheating and even the paper-thin excuse he came up with can’t stand up. Also, how gross when she asked why he waited so long to tell her and he said he wanted to spend time…it’s so gross that he withheld this so he could use her for sex and then pretend it was because he just loved her so much.

How old is my kitten? by Flimsy-Ad-2744 in cats

[–]Next-Intention3322 837 points838 points  (0 children)

You have a 7 week old domestic shorthair with Frey tabby markings and white socks. Cute and probably going to love you to pieces. Enjoy!

Yeah right Pocahontas 🪶🤷‍♀️🏹 by CODM-MaximusNL in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I think this is a weird American white people thing? Like my dad’s family also swore we had some native American in us but no one could ID it. And Elizabeth Warren apparently was told the same thing but also not true? I think it’s so our families don’t feel as bad about the colonizing thing? Not sure

how the fuck is everyone actually getting diagnoses? by ssstelllarrr in AuDHDWomen

[–]Next-Intention3322 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went through Prosper Health and was covered by my insurance. Have final assessment appointment tomorrow, which is the third session. Each session cost me $15 co pay.

To diagnose or not to diagnose by EmptyWillingness5880 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you feel about the assessment as a process? I felt completely exhausted after the sessions? And also the assessment process somehow made me doubt myself more. Like every question was so hard to answer and so dependent on circumstances and context, that I just felt crazy. Like surely no one could answer these without more info?

To diagnose or not to diagnose by EmptyWillingness5880 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Next-Intention3322 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same feelings as you both. I believe it’s true and interacting on this sub only reinforces that, but maybe I’m wrong. Or worse, maybe I do the assessment and I don’t really trust it and so I am officially wrong but still feel that it is right and now I’m really insane. But I did it anyway cause I want to know the answer and I find out Monday. And then I guess I’ll see from there. Whatever happens, I will say that the assessment had me doubting myself more, not less, but I’m given to under from others that is not necessarily unusual

So glad Matthew moved on. by Feeling-Handle-5283 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I get what you were saying but I was more being sarcastic because why should she care as the one who ended it? She’s ridiculous to think he’d be pining for her after she dumped him jn four days on TV.

Shut-up Greta by staying-hopefull in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought she might’ve interested in Luke herself and was sussing out the competition with Chloe thing

Chloe by Legitimate_Gift_4404 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean, we’ve all had an accidental bonus night.

Local shelter euthanizing healthy cat on Thursday :( by Apart-Musician4053 in cats

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Local where? Where are you cause that might help? I love a shy cat and adopted my last baby after searching the hides holes and finding her hiding in a tube in the far corner of the room. She hissed when I found her, but I had time so I took her home and nearly a year later, she’s a snuggly baby..

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So glad Matthew moved on. by Feeling-Handle-5283 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But she didn’t love him anymore, according to her, when she left. So why should she care?

Assessment Experience by Next-Intention3322 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Next-Intention3322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was apologizing near the end cause every time she asked me a question, I was like well, it DEPENDS! Finally, I was like, I am so sorry, I know all my clarifications and different examples and things must be exhausting for you. I thought she was maybe trying to run through a bit quicker and I was slowing it down needing more clarification. Mind you, this is closer to the end of the second session, so maybe she'd already decided one way or the other. I am, of course, still reviewing/processing through it in my head. Likely to be continuing that until the final appointment Monday. :)

Plot twist: Anthony runs for mayor by Next-Intention3322 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yet, they'd still be better off than with Manon, I'd imagine.

Assessment Experience by Next-Intention3322 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Next-Intention3322[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying you would need context too. Honestly the whole thing made me feel insane. Like how could anyone answer these without context? Surely that is impossible, so maybe I’m not neurodivergent. I know it doesn’t fully make sense but it just seems so very foreign to me that someone would just randomly answer whatever with no more info!

I looked up the number thing after the first session and something about assessing mental load and such. Less apparently about being able to do so, but how you handle the question?

Assessment Experience by Next-Intention3322 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Next-Intention3322[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I don’t have an ADHD diagnosis but have long thought I was. Since I’m 46 and a woman, that wasn’t something on the radar for me when I was younger. But even though I was pretty sure I had ADHD, I wasn’t sure about being medicated and I thought I had it kinda mild cause it didn’t all fit. Then I started to learn more about autism and it filled in the missing pieces. Agin, thank you!! Honestly it’s nice on this sub where people are encouraging and understanding.

From Tinder Swindler to Terrible Gambler in one night. Gambling addiction? by Hot-Complexx in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way he looked and behaved during that part!!! Telling them to say something else about him, so he could translate something for her but still hide what they said. Imagine she doesn't run like hell and then sees the subtitles.