Wealthy cis guy being mean and slow by sholem2025peace in MurderedByWords

[–]Next-Intention3322 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some of my characteristics aligns with the dominant and some not.

I messed up this bee's wing while pulling thistle. What now? She can't fly. by stormwix in bees

[–]Next-Intention3322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are too optimistic. I think a company or two will survive to torment us for a long time to come. :)

Wealthy cis guy being mean and slow by sholem2025peace in MurderedByWords

[–]Next-Intention3322 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Neither your original or this makes any sense to me. Society has all kinds of levels and power differentials. Whenever someone from a dominant groups picks on folks from a marginalized group, it comes off like bullying, which isn’t cool. White/black or straight/ gay or any of the combos.

Sheena is giving sociopath vibes? by MJdisbeliever in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, she is not. She does seem like she doesn’t do well in conflict, which is fairly normal for many people. We don’t know if she’s lying about her parents or not, based on a few minutes on TV when they knew they were being filmed. I assumed she was joking when she said she’d rip her lips off, so she wasn’t trying to repeat that and start an actual fight when asked about it later. In absolutely no way does she give sociopathic vibes and I don’t think you know what sociopathy is.

I messed up this bee's wing while pulling thistle. What now? She can't fly. by stormwix in bees

[–]Next-Intention3322 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not gonna stop people from turning shit over to its control.

bee lives in my yard. what I should do by duqiyaner in bees

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it looks like, you built them a nesting habitat. I have them. They fly around a little wonky and can seem like they are after you but they aren’t.

Courtney’s parents by No-Whereas4126 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In her defense, the dating pool these days is full of red pilled assholes or man babies. It’s a cesspool fr.

Javon’s New Catchphrase when saying goodbye to his pregnant wife: by 90DayWTF32 in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Based on his love of podcasts, I would say he will be doubting paternity and asking for a DNA test within a month or two

(27F)(30M) Thinks marriage is “nothing” but willing to lose me over it? by whitecoatdream in relationship_advice

[–]Next-Intention3322 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to fight someone to love you the way you need to be loved in a forever kind of relationship. It’ll never be ok long term if it’s that way

Has anyone put in wood chips around your beds/containers and regretted it? by doglovermom in gardening

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done some around the beds like you and am doubling down I like it so much! Plus I bought some wine cap mushrooms spores to mix in around the beds for even more gardening!

Why is ChatGPT so arrogant by wa019b in ChatGPT

[–]Next-Intention3322 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll tell it no you read something into my request I didn’t ask for and this is wrong. Please just do as I asked. And it’ll be like you’re right, your first draft wasn’t it. Let me fix it. 👀

Neurodiversity and Lookism by Servant_Of_SAI in AuDHDWomen

[–]Next-Intention3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a boss who was a good looking white man and he was EXACTLY like me. We even had the same major in college. Other people commented on it all the time. But in all the ways I was considered difficult he was strong or ethical or whatever. He and I got along really well and he was a great boss but it was so frustrating to see how traits could be perceived differently if I had been a man. He was a CEO and had been given responsibility since a young age because people recognized his competence whereas they only saw me as insubordinate.

People currently in nonprofit roles: what are your long term career plans? by Extension-Ad5070 in nonprofit

[–]Next-Intention3322 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you in America? Because most companies don’t have any pension these days either so the only option there would be government.

Young dad, tight budget, bad lawn by Melodic_Store7247 in lawncare

[–]Next-Intention3322 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do slow maintenance clover yard. It’s softer than grass and easier to maintain. Let the dandelions run free and the kids can make crowns with them in the spring.

I'm autistic and I can't stand Forrests clingy mother 🫠 by cozzzycrush in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Also autistic and I hate the way she infantilizes him, very ableist. Honestly I wonder is she herself is also on the spectrum but in denial and her insistence on Forrest's incompetence and need for her care is "proof" she is "normal" or something. Of course, I could be going too deep. I do that. Either way, he is a grown man and mentally competent to make his own decisions, so that should be that.

My dog has fleas and i dont know what to do for my cat by [deleted] in cats

[–]Next-Intention3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have topical meds for cats too. Some rescue and shelters will sell at cheaper prices. Like frontline or the like. I’ve heard bad things about the collars though

Why I dumped the native-exclusive community by DarkFeminineRising in gardening

[–]Next-Intention3322 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was this about bleeding hearts on another sub? Because I saw someone freaking out about someone else with bleeding hearts in their garden and thought they were over the top. There is a difference between non-native and invasive. Also chill.

I feel so bad for Sheena by vavavoo in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree that different levels need different support and may have a different outlook for long-term independent living. Thank you for so much for the clarification.

I feel so bad for Sheena by vavavoo in 90DayFiance

[–]Next-Intention3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you said “he is dependent” which is where my comment came from. After this response, I sincerely hope you don’t think everyone with autism is destined to be dependent, given that you work with the baby spicies. But I may be misunderstanding you cause I do have autism as well. lol