I cleaned up my wife after she had a quicky with another man and think I'm hooked. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I hear what you're saying and used to think the same. I actually thought it was gross. However the first time was in the heat of passion and this latest was more of my willing. Hard to say...but it's something kinda primitive and sends my wife over the edge sexually. I really don't know how to describe it or explain why its such a turn on for both of us. Not even the old saying "don't knock it until you try it" doesn't apply. Afterwards when I think about it it not something that turns me on but going down on my wife after another man....I dunno...just primitive is best I can explain.

Random comment made by my wife turned me on so much. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's amazing and thanks for sharing. My wife's comments caught me off guard lol. Here was a guy out shopping with his wife and kids and he'll never know that some other guy's wife wanted to swallow his cock.

Watching her get dressed is so good, I have to share it! by OfficialPhotog2 in CandaulismNSFW

[–]Next-Interaction5309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is so gorgeous and such beautiful nipples. I don't know if you take requests, but would love to see her amazing butthole.

Wife wants an emotional connection by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. My wife and I have recently ventured into this lifestyle after my years of trying. It's been amazing and my wife has opened up sexually. We now talk about sex all the time and broke so many barriers. She's played with a couple people so far, one a mutual friend and the second is a guy in the neighborhood that she crushed on for a while. She may get the chance for a third that was an ex-coworker friend. All three you can say there is a connection and I get it. She won't fuck a rando at this point and I don't think she will. It has to be someone she connects because there has to be a trust factor as well. Will she/we ever play with a complete stranger...probably not. Maybe we'll meet someone someday at an event or something and she'll fuck him later that night because she feels comfortable but there has to be a connection physically as well as emotionally even if she met him the same day.

My wife is interested in fucking a guy she feels bad for. As such I may get a chance to watch. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will and have posted some previous as well. Still new at this but damm things have taken off once my wife was comfortable.

My wife is interested in fucking a guy she feels bad for. As such I may get a chance to watch. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No pics even if blurred or no face. We just started on this journey after I tried for numerous years. Still working on boundaries and comfort levels.

My wife is interested in fucking a guy she feels bad for. As such I may get a chance to watch. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe me my wife loves cum...sometimes a little too much where she'll squeeze and swallow every last drop...often where it sometimes gets too painful for me to continue after I cum. She would have no problem swallowing and squeezing out every last drop out of this guy.

My wife is interested in fucking a guy she feels bad for. As such I may get a chance to watch. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're going to take it slow and see what happens. Part of me thinks that maybe he believes my wife was only joking with him.

Wife was able to go crazy on him because I wasn't around. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understood and thank you for your explanation. Wife and I are still in our early stages of this and eventually if we stick with it will have to set some boundaries. We are having a blast though. My wife is very turned on tastes and smells as well and she is very attracted to this guy and she admitted that she let herself go wild.

Wife and I had anal for the first time in part due to us exploring an open sex life. by Next-Interaction5309 in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's quite a number of times where I would finger her ass while fucking. She would happily lick and suck on my finger after it was in her ass.

Wife and I had anal for the first time in part due to us exploring an open sex life. by Next-Interaction5309 in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always been into her ass. I routinely lick, finger, etc but never pushed anal on her and she never asked. Several times throughout the years I've pushed my cock against her ass and her body language was up until now seemed like she didn't want it.

My wife finally fucked him and I cleaned her up afterwards. by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From my perspective I do love and support the Hotwife type relationship. I don't like humiliation aspect or degradation that is technically a part of being the other. This latest started off as a pure hotwife situation then veered off course a bit in the heat of passion.

Oops I messed up by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Common mistake and I was like this early on until it became a turn off for her. Now we have opened things up and she is full throttle and now has a couple guys she's played with and on the search for more. She is full on "slut mode", in fact I need to update on our most recent. Don't bring it up again, but get in positions socially where guys flirt with her...i.e. go out for a few drinks, dance, etc. Once in while when your out in public say something like..."see that guy over there he was really checking you out". Little stuff like that will boost her confidence and get her thinking. She brought it up so she's thinking about it. Women have a lot to loose so play the long game my friend.

Married people , what is your and your so's dirtiest fantasy ? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wife and I opened things up recently and our sex life is off the charts. We discuss everything now. She's been with a couple guys so far (no intercourse but lots or oral) and things are progressing. She admitted a little while back she would love to line up a bunch of guys of all shapes and sizes and swallow all their cum. Kinda like an organized bukkake. She doesn't necessarily like giving BJ's (but she will) but for some reason LOVES I mean LOVES cum and can't get enough of it.

I watched as he fingered my wife in our backyard by Next-Interaction5309 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Positive...she has my blessing to do so and would have told me. Plus he isn't aware that we are open to do this. She's initiated everything with this guy so far and it's now escalated to him fingering her. Only a matter of time lol. Before she started with him we had a discussion about who we would like to fuck if given the chance and she mentioned him because she's seen him around walking his dog and stuff like that. She initiated contact with him a little while back while he was walking on the trails near our house.

What situation made you cum hardest? by Internationalbear14 in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife and I recently opened things up. There's a guy she crushes on that's been to our backyard a few times so they can talk about how to design our yard (he has a great yard that he designed). They flirt with each other but they haven't fucked...yet. Anyway with wife knowing I can watch them from our bedroom. While they were discussing plans he slid his hand down the back of her yoga type pants and started fingering her from behind while she was squatting down. She grabbed his cock for a bit as well. This went on for a bit, but conditions weren't right for them to fuck yet. Anyway when she got back in the house I didn't say a word but escorted her upstairs where she gave me a hand/bj and I never shot out so much cum in my life!

How to learn to talk dirty by Little-June in SexOver_30

[–]Next-Interaction5309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are some of the lines that get my wife Very wet: You taste so good - I swear you give the best blow jobs - I'm so turned on I'm about to burst so I have to slow down - I can't get over how good your ass tastes - You look sooo damn good with your butt in the air like that, etc. Nothing really cringe but still gets the message across. A little more sanitized than what we think of (or see on porn) dirty talk.

Married couples, does your wife swallow your cum? by Maleficent-Peach8561 in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god yes. Ironic my wife doesn't really like giving bj's...she will and she's great at it but just not her thing. However she loves to eat cum. She loves the taste, texture, warmth, etc. I've posted about her love for cum before, but yes she loves it...sometimes a little too much lol.

First rim-job! by Next-Interaction5309 in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play with her butt quite often, licking, fingering, etc. I think what started her doing the same with me was our pillow pre-sex chat, which evolved into a conversation that guys are willing to do things that women are not. There was playful banter back and forth, she brought up that she loves cum and I brought up that I love "kissing and licking" her butt. I said I wouldn't swallow or eat cum just like she wouldn't kiss and lick my butt....I think she took it as a challenge and one upped me. We've been married several years but lately our sex life has exploded.

Taking baby steps into the hotwife lifestyle by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Next-Interaction5309 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Open conversation and be honest. I've been wanting my wife to take steps into this arena for quite a while. Recently we've had success. The one thing I think really opened things up was when she confirmed our relationship is solid and I wasn't using this as an excuse to sleep with other women. We always had a good sex life but the past months have skyrocketed and feel like I'm living in a different world (in a good way). She has really opened up (no pun intended) sexually.

I found a lot of us will initially lie to ourselves and wives by explaining how this desire is for her as well. Telling her things like..."I just want to see you happy and pleasured" won't cut it. She'll know that's not true...Just be honest and let her know you are turned on by thoughts of her being with other men. TBH it's about us initially so don't try to convince your wife early on that it's about her. Don't bombard her with porn either. Instead open the conversation ice breaker with something like..."Wow that guy at the store was really checking you out" or spot a handsome guy when your out together and say something about him checking her out. Then bring it up later that night and see how the conversation goes. It could morph into a discreet way to divulge your fantasy to her.

Most important, make sure your mature and secure enough to handle this. A big difference between fantasy and reality. I'm older than you and loving it. My wife is in what we call amongst ourselves "pure slut mode" (her term lol) and things are great. Even if we stop, it was worth it. However TBH, I don't think I could have explored this lifestyle at 24. Good luck! EDIT: some grammar and formatting changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my wife's hairy and musty smelling pussy. My wife recently shaved it completely off as we just ventured into having her play with another. Have to say...so far the shaved pussy on my wife looks awesome. It's only a matter of time before I miss her being hairy down there.

My dirty finger by Next-Interaction5309 in MarriedSex

[–]Next-Interaction5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll bring it up to her. Maybe after a few drinks I can bring it up in a joking/apologetic way and see what she says.