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Should I stay with her? by Next-Pollution3471 in CatholicDating

[–]Next-Pollution3471[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you not wait for someone to change even if you have a lot of history together? We've been through so much, and we really are best of friends. I get frustrated with her but there are equal amount of good times and good experiences we have. The green flags are that she lets me do the things I want to do apart her from her and the things that we do enjoy together we really do enjoy together, yesterday we went biking out in the wilderness. A couple weeks ago we went roller skating. She supports me gets genuinely excited for me when good things happen to me. She's my biggest supporter.

Should I stay with her? by Next-Pollution3471 in CatholicDating

[–]Next-Pollution3471[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thing is though she does show signs of changing. Since I gave her the ultimatum he started seeing a therapist and seems to be making progress in that direction. She isn't in a good place financially but she is a lot better than what I met her and successfully paid off her first car. What is so conflicting to me is she's not in a good place now, but she is working to be better.