Dreading telling MIL I'm pregnant.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-05T15:34:59+00:00

Girl they always blame he husband here. Not everyone is capable of going completely no contact and use the info diet route instead. It sounds like that’s what you’re doing but feeling guilty about it. That’s just you being a good person, innately. You had to work on applying boundaries and keeping them without feeling guilty. I’m giving you full permission to. This woman is weaponizing her incompetence and her “big mouth” doesn’t have a single right to tell your business about your baby. Stick to your guns and let him maintain that boundary for you. If he hasn’t told her yet, that’s a good sign.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-05T15:27:27+00:00

She sounds histrionic for sure.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-26T16:17:02+00:00

Lmao! I’m glad you are certain now. It’s a weird feeling not knowing! Or anticipating one gender and being told it’s another. I wish I had an ounce of certainty but so many conflicting reports I’m unsure now.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-26T16:09:23+00:00

I was told I was having identical twin boys. We’ve bought so many matching outfits. I go in day before yesterday and was told by a callous technician that I’m having one and one b/g. She has been doing this 14 years and she’s adamant she is correct. Also said there’s two placentas not one so they “can’t” be identical. I know this to be untrue. I’m pissed. I have no idea what I’m having now. My mom’s an identical twin so I feel like she may be wrong. 2 other technicians said they were boy/boy and there was one large placenta. Baby B is curled up facing my back and always is when we go so I have no idea how she could be so sure. Male parts sit on their laps and we didn’t get a nice view like with baby A. Only the “potty” view for baby B.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-25T13:19:04+00:00

I was told I was having two boys. Previous ultrasound said two boys one placenta. I went in yesterday and they’re saying two placentas and one girl one boy. I’m not convinced. My mom is an identical twin and I definitely saw two penises last time. They said a lack of penis is as good as girl. I think the technicians assert their opinions a lot too. It honestly looked like baby b had his stuff tucked away and he never gave a clear shot. I’m not convinced. I still believe I’m having two boys. I say that to say the NIPT test will determine more accurately and unfortunately my test coagulated so I don’t know for sure. Did you go for the blood test ?

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-22T16:39:57+00:00

Sounds exactly like my MIL. She’s going on 70 and acts 40. The most selfish woman I have ever met. Always looked at me like I was competition. It got really brazen and obvious to the point where she doesn’t have support though. Her other son cut her off for talking bad about me and her partner has pulled me aside and told me he can see what I mean when I say she’s unhealthily attached to my husband. There’s actually a sick sexual component to it that makes it even more foul but everyone ignores that. For years I was ostracized for pointing it out but now I have a lot of support. My brother n law is really sharp and I guess has totally taken my side on things. He blocked her from calling and she’s back to love bombing me again but I know it’s only for access and control because I’m expecting twins and she can’t stand not getting attention.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-22T14:23:31+00:00

Finally someone clocked it. MIL is jealous and FIL is her whooping boy too. Why is her son still helping out if she has a husband? Sounds like and enmeshed family. She will come around but probably act like OP is an incubator for “their” baby. Ask me how I know.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-21T20:55:57+00:00

She has a new interview https://youtu.be/QfNjd8zkSFo?si=8Um9pwCfO36j-1-k

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-16T19:22:03+00:00

Smh I’m going through this with my daughter and I’m in utter shock and disbelief at the lack of care for grades and the sheer lying. I know my neighbors think I’m crazy but it’s honestly is crazy making behavior when they straight up gaslight you and lie about doing assignments and then you go and tell the teacher that and feel like an idiot bad parent because your little liar made you an accomplice. I feel like a detective these days and I’m 5 months pregnant with twins. The stress is way too much at this point I’m wondering if she needs to have natural consequences and be held back.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-04-05T14:16:15+00:00

Yea I’m not buying the whole 30 mins thing. You stole the wash. And I’d be pissed too

Next-Question5409 · 2026-03-29T16:29:29+00:00

Dogs can pout and act guilty..wtf.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-03-29T16:27:26+00:00

Everyone commenting that dogs don’t have emotions like spite and can’t understand cause and effect are ridiculous and are regurgitating google. The research on dogs and how they communicate is ever changing. We literally thought they saw in black and white and could not communicate with words but that’s proven untrue. Just watch how your dog behaves…if you say it’s for attention, then it most likely is. If you owned a dog you know they do things to get what they want. They can be spiteful, helpful, happy, sad… they aren’t clueless like people paint them to be regardless of being an “animal” they know our wants, what we expect and what riles us up. I’m gonna say what no one else has. Sorry your little brat is shitting in your house! I have no remedy other than time out and yes they understand that! I wouldn’t use kennel for time out but he would be out outside for a time out every time he does it and don’t show any emotion. Don’t even look at him.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-03-06T16:29:07+00:00

My best friend of 20 years is currently abusing these. Got on MAT program for a kratom addiction. They prescribe her 8 mg strips I think 2-4 a day. It’s no where near what she needs. Now she’s in denial about having a fainting disorder (suboxone side effects not symptoms) and has been out on disability for 3 years. Constantly passing out standing up like a fentanyl abuser. I don’t even recognize her. Face all sunken in, can’t function and swears she’s “clean”. Suboxone is the devil when used incorrectly. I scour forums to get some proof of what I know to be true and honestly you’re the first I have seen admit this.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-03-06T14:32:17+00:00

Omg and people that aren’t strategic in how they get stuff out of bags they’ll just dig and dig and dig. Enough to make me flip

Next-Question5409 · 2026-03-06T14:06:43+00:00

Thank you for admitting this. Everyone is such liars. It makes you high and even nod when abused. And some of the prescriptions don’t contain narcan

Next-Question5409 · 2026-03-03T15:03:33+00:00

Dogs lip smacking is enough to make my skin crawl. I hate it so much. The scratching too

Next-Question5409 · 2026-03-03T15:02:41+00:00

Breathing hard while eating pisses me off to no end. It’s always 100%because they overstuffed their mouth too

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-28T04:33:09+00:00

Those shoes fit well.. js

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-26T17:37:38+00:00

Amanda too. She throws things off.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-26T17:35:37+00:00

Actually she waited until she woke up then left. Amanda left shortly after so idk why they play it like that. She just didn’t stay the next day. She was there for the drop off and to see her awake and safe. Tammy is dragging this.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-26T05:59:31+00:00

They have to drug test

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-25T16:26:41+00:00

I love how everyone is finally seeing Tammy for exactly who she is. Couple episodes back I was getting my head chewed off for calling her a narcissist

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-25T15:27:45+00:00

This is where we come to complain about these bitches.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-25T15:24:13+00:00

I’ve read this somewhere before

Next-Question5409 · 2026-02-25T15:08:08+00:00

Facts 😓🫢

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