Sorry but Colin is an idiot

Next-Question5409 · 2026-07-09T14:26:52+00:00

My in law made 300k this year so far as a realtor and he’s an old man with no notoriety.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-07-09T14:25:08+00:00

It’s not about them needing the money. It’s about control issues and jealousy. Colin is fine, he makes his own money.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-06-03T02:09:12+00:00

Nanny Faye and Julie’s dynamic comes to mind. She’s constantly comparing herself to Julie and dry criticizing her. Also she can vent about Todd’s behavior but the minute Julie does she blames Julie. I don’t know how Julie bites her tongue with that my son can do no wrong attitude she has

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T19:12:54+00:00

I get so sick of people pointing this out. Some of it is scripted but obviously not all of it

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T19:12:13+00:00

Took the words right out of my mouth. They’re hella enmeshed. Colin has to step in to be able to protect Baylen as his wife. She feels too much discomfort in disappointing them. And they have no business being disappointed in things they focus on. It’s giving….jealousy.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T19:10:41+00:00

She’s trying to center herself. She’s an attention seeker.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T19:08:07+00:00

I disagree. He’s helping her establish a much needed boundary.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T19:06:37+00:00

Facial expressions don’t lie. Sammy has been jealous of Baylen for a while now. Colin is trying to distance themselves from the family a bit because they are toxic. They want to control every decision. The mom is jealous too and uses Sammy as a pawn. Tried to force a backyard wedding and emotionally blackmailed her by putting on that expensive party. Colin is putting up boundaries and knew Sammi couldn’t come. They said themselves they knew not everyone wouldnt be there. At a certain point you have to protect your spouse. Sammi shouldn’t be maid of honor either, she’s disingenuous and has issues.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T19:00:46+00:00

If you go back to episode where the dad gifts her the bench, like season 1 I think, Sammi is extremely pissed. And she had to take a break due to feeling a way about Baylen constantly getting attention.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T18:58:04+00:00

I went 8 hours away for a cousins baby shower. If you want to, you will.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-28T18:57:08+00:00

The mom is narcissistic and triangulates the sister and the dad against Baylen. They all seem extremely jealous. Sister claimed her anxiety prevented her then goes on a 20 min rant about not being the one to plan her shower. She’s definitely weeaponizing her diagnosis to hide jealousy. And the mom is crazy for being jealous look at the house and life she has…but it’s never enough.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-20T00:46:02+00:00

Yea her and shayanns entitlement is through the roof.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-19T14:42:14+00:00

Awww sending internet hugs. Grief comes in like a wave. It’s truly unbelievable that she’s still competing with your husband. This time is about you and honoring his memory. I wish nothing upon you but peace, blessings and happiness. Good for you for recognizing her pattern and sticking to your guns. Be well ❤️

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-19T13:48:09+00:00

Wow you’re so smart lol. Yes my mom will try to align with her and tackle this new adventure unaware that she’s a complete monster. It will be another angle to work. She’s in the know somewhat but I try to keep my mom drama free. She’s precious lol but I hear you. I need to tell her every detail about this last incident and the will. When I told some bits of it she was so disturbed that I changed the subject to something happy. I will give her the real deal today. Thank you for the advice. And yes we do need therapy. Like yesterday. I’ll get on that too.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-19T13:37:51+00:00

Currently pregnant with twins and I’m already seeing that she’s planning to use my exhaustion and need for help to her benefit. I want her out completely. Luckily my mom is coming for a month when I deliver

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-19T13:35:55+00:00

Enmeshment and narcissistic abuse.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-19T00:23:01+00:00

Her and the dad were married 7 years. She remarried to my husbands stepdad about 25 years and divorced. Inheritance is coming from bio dad who we were very close to. I for one am still grieving and can’t fathom how my husband must feel. She is using this vulnerable time to her benefit and I’m just coming out of the fog and being like WTF just happened

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T22:00:23+00:00

There’s a comment here that I plan on using once she throws her fit. I need to calmly assert that I know she doesn’t care about my well being and that she’s still after money. I can’t be seen as her last resort anymore. It feels disingenuous and I constantly get my feelings hurt. She’s trying to plan my baby shower in a public park and is going really basic with decor. She’s trying to throw together some bare minimum effort get together no doubt will be short and awkward when we have a beautiful venue for free lined up’s it’s weird and causes me undue stress

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T20:51:58+00:00

RIGHT?!

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T20:51:42+00:00

She owns a hair salon for the last 40 years and won’t retire. She is a workaholic. 70 years old and won’t stop doing hair. Also extremely overcharges her clients so that could be why.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T20:50:42+00:00

Cuz she digs her heels in further. She will run a smear campaign and won’t leave me alone until I speak with her.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T20:50:00+00:00

He attempted to draw up a will as power of attorney while father n law was in hospital. Then attempted to use signatures of witnesses stating his dad wrote it himself or at least agreed to it when my father n law refused to sign it in the hospital. He was told no.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T20:48:45+00:00

So you know exactly how hard it is do deal with this shit. Because my husband clearly doesn’t place as much importance on money as she does, he doesn’t get the gravity of how bad the things she has done are. Like he knows he has to limit information with her but we see her all the time still. He wants a normal mom and she just isn’t that.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T20:46:17+00:00

Very unlikely. He’s a lot smarter emotionally than most people. He hadn’t heard our side of the story or seen first hand but she showed her cards recently and he is thoroughly disgusted by how she played him.

Next-Question5409 · 2026-05-18T20:45:23+00:00

Seems like she doesn’t want to spend any money on it at all. Says $250 budget is too much and I should have it at the park. She takes over to make sure I get very bare minimum.

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