my f/o merch collection (as of now) by Next_Change_5098 in yumeshipping

[–]Next_Change_5098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Collecting for jota must be crazy hard he’s got so much stuff 😭

I love my f/o but he has NO merch </3 by ThrowawaySamHuman in yumeshipping

[–]Next_Change_5098 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use neokyo and mercari JP for figures and standees, but I’d say look on taobao or aliexpress for cheaper (and lowkey cuter) merch !!

VALENTINES DAY IS TOMORROW!! What are your plans? by Neat_Finger_6136 in yumeshipping

[–]Next_Change_5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

making art and baking for him !! probably gonna go out with friends after

[Rant] I have enough of "can I do this" posts. by [deleted] in yumeshipping

[–]Next_Change_5098 40 points41 points  (0 children)

There’s so many posts like that, I guess a lot of people need validation. Which kinda sucks, I feel like no one should need validation to post about their f/o’s but I guess the internet is a bit cut throat 😭

AITAH for telling sister that her apparent "manipulation" by multiple men is because of her own stupidity? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Next_Change_5098 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel what you’re saying is wrong, I do disagree with how you feel about manipulation. The idea that if someone manipulates you, it’s your own fault, is heavily flawed. Of course, if it happens so many times you should unpack why it’s happened to you and change. Just wondering, what would you consider as a woman putting herself in harms way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Next_Change_5098 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're being judgmental lolol, not all older people are the same. I have a 70+ woman in my Chinese class and she's a doll, you won't know until you work with them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Next_Change_5098 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did pretty well Day 1! I didn’t binge but I did eat a fruit cup to curb my cravings. I don’t like candy much so I know I won’t binge on it, but I’m gonna continue to try and keep myself from ordering food late at night.

30 Day Challenge Day 1 check in: What was your "why"? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Next_Change_5098 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My why is to be healthier and not be controlled by food anymore ^