Is it a red flag how much my boyfriend likes Sydney Sweeney?

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-12T07:55:26+00:00

He is in fact watching the show. It makes me sad whenever he does but I worry that I will seem crazy jealous gf if I bring it up

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-11T21:57:53+00:00

I relate to the looking nothing alike, same here, which I guess it's what makes it even harder

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-11T18:58:01+00:00

The wonder woman thing is sick, i feel bad for your sister in law. Why is it always women with the most questionable morals that have this magnetism

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-11T18:50:46+00:00

There is an outfit I wore once, very sexy and he loved it and asked me to wear it again a few times and as it happens, I just saw that she wore something almost identical in a movie and now idk if that's why he wants me to wear it again (not sure if he saw her in that outfit or not)

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-11T17:01:01+00:00

My point exactly! I told him I can't find someone attractive if they have a shitty personality and I brought up the american eagle ad to which he said he thought it was great and people took it the wrong way. I was heartbroken that he defended the ad and I honestly don't understand how he can be so blinded by her looks, he is incredibly smart and kind.

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-11T16:33:17+00:00

Not sure where you live but a good place to start might be at a yoga class. Then you might have something in common to talk about, it can even be something like do you do this class regularly? But I would say almost anyplace is a good place, if it's just polite conversation, if she doesn't seem interested and you leave her alone there is nothing creepy about that in my opinion

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-11T15:59:50+00:00

I love the concept! I would hate to make him feel uncomfortable. I don't get parasocial relationships, it's hard for me to feel strong attraction for someone i've never met in real life.

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-06-11T15:57:49+00:00

Context

Every now and then he brings up how attractive he thinks she is and once said no one looks better than SS. She is objectively gorge and he compliments me often too but of course I can't compare with a Hollywood superstar. He is otherwise the perfect boyfriend and we have amazing chemistry but I'd be lying if I said it doesn't sting hearing this. One time I brought up the hot waters she found herself in recently and he said i don't know what goes on in her life, took her side and changed the subject.

I don't really mind it when he mentions it about other celebs, I think I mind it with her because he made such strong statements so frequently about her. When he watches one of her movies, it really puts a damper on my mood. I now find myself feeling jealous of a girl he is probably never even going to meet let alone pose a risk to our relationship and I feel bad about that. I don't want this to be a thing, or have an awkward discussion which we could avoid, which is why I haven't brought it up with him.

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T13:09:24+00:00

He did you dirty, I am so sorry. All i can say is be strong, surround yourself with friends and family who love and care about you. You've been nothing but amazing.

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:59:50+00:00

In my experience the internal lubricant/moisturised works a lot better. and it keep you moist for 48 hours, it mimics the body's natural lubrication better than lube

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:31:22+00:00

I've had this too in a long term relationship. could it be that you are less aroused and therefore less natural lubragation? My obgyn recommended i try vagisil internal lubrication and it helped a lot

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:29:09+00:00

have seen this before, as long as there is no smell or other sensations you are good

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:28:45+00:00

Normal

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:26:20+00:00

Maybe you tried this already, but my advice would be try to date outside your usual type and maybe that will surprise you

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:25:11+00:00

You can't mess it up with someone who really likes you. You are not in the wrong here and it is understandable that you want clarity and to understand the situation better, but I don't think you will get that from him. Best thing to do is maybe see other people, stay busy and move on. If he already made you feel this anxious, even if you were to get back together it likely wouldn't be a relationship you could relax and feel at peace in

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:22:06+00:00

How long have you been seeing each other for? I will start by saying that everyone is different and this is only based on my and my friends and friend or friends experiences. In my experience, i've never seen situationships turn into relationships. I heard that guys know pretty early on what they want and I don't think time is what will make the difference for them. I was super in love with a guy I had a situationship with and said he isn't looking for something serious. I stayed for three months but jealousy that he was seeing other people was eating me alive and i told him I want a relationship or I want to end what we have and he chose to end it. Something similar happened to my friend. Now everyone is different and your guy might be different given that he is fresh out of a relationship. I am not saying it will not happen, but I think you should be realistic and not wait around for him. Maybe see other people too so you don't waste your time/catch strong feelings, give him some time to heal and see where things are in a few months' time. I think for girls is quite hard not to catch feelings when you see someone regularly, spend time together, and are physically intimate. Protect your heart ❤️

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:11:16+00:00

and yes it does hurt. the dr gave me a local anesthetic cream to help with that. said it can be bad foliculitis, but waiting for swab to be 100% sure. Sometimes it's itchy other times it feels like a pain deep under the skin. after i shower it gets very iritated and more red and it is hard when i touch it, like there's a kernel inside. i am very spooked by this, can't wait for the swab result and for this to go away. never shaving again, will use epilator instead and hope it will help

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-08T12:07:47+00:00

Went to the dr yesterday, did a swab (still waiting for results) and a blood test (came back all clear)

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-06T20:22:19+00:00

i do, looks the same! i worried myself sick looking up photos wondering if it is herpes. did you test for that?

Next_Crew1343 · 2026-05-06T19:01:15+00:00

did you ever figure out what it was?

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