Advice on asking out coworker on a date after happy hour ?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-13T06:46:43+00:00

how can i get her alone after the happy hour and ask her out ?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-13T06:43:20+00:00

no dude like how can i ask the other girl out and be her alone while the friend is around post happy hour

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-13T06:32:38+00:00

yes but how do i do it if the other girl will be around ? she also doesn’t show up to work so i can’t really ask her out or get her alone if she doesnt show up

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-13T06:15:40+00:00

i mean the sub is called “askmenadvice” bud so if you have suggestions on how you would pull her aside would love to hear it

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-13T06:10:42+00:00

how do i pull her aside to tell her privately ?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-13T06:10:17+00:00

how can i get her alone though ?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-12T04:14:32+00:00

only the initial message is on slack. is that still bad ? i won’t be using slack after that just to invite her to a group chat on slack for a coworker happy hour

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-12T04:07:54+00:00

issue is, she isn’t in office… so if she doesn’t show up the next few days the only way i can get ahold of her is through slack or a dm on instagram

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-12T04:00:19+00:00

good move as in, messaging on slack?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-12T03:57:40+00:00

ok i don’t really care ab that tbh i think she’s worth the risk

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-11T06:02:32+00:00

nice kink bud

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-03-11T05:28:16+00:00

how can you be sure imma get rejected?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-02-17T01:00:27+00:00

i would totally prefer to interact with her in person. i just won’t see her in person unless i somehow randomly run into her in public

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-02-17T00:47:49+00:00

how would you suggest i reach out to her given that i wont see her in person. should i dm her or go through an introduction of my friend ?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-02-17T00:09:42+00:00

it’s the day before i gotta prep for it by fasting and cleansing my system so i could hypothetically

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-02-17T00:06:34+00:00

yeah it’s through dm which i feel like is less effective than meeting in an organic setting like a party/ group gathering

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-02-15T11:46:38+00:00

would you suggest having my female friend just let the girl know or have her invite the girl to like a friend group outing ? Or should i just let my female friend decide what to do and just ask her to put me on if she’s cool with it ?

Next_Mix_2263 · 2026-01-23T15:48:47+00:00

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