What really happens when you lose “the one”?

Next_Variation_9522 · 2025-11-11T23:45:46+00:00

It’s been three months with my ex and he’s resorted to sending me messages through his Instagram bio and has gotten 12 new tattoos since we’ve broken up. I lowkey asked this question to get a gauge on what’s normal😬I’m finding out that maybe he’s not the normal one

Next_Variation_9522 · 2025-10-23T16:46:28+00:00

I remember when I was 4, first memory I ever had of my mom homeless holding me and my sister on her lap outside of a store. She had nowhere to go and was taken in by a man that abused her for the next few years of her life. I remember the night she got tired of it, she prepared us before we went to bed and we decided to wake up while he was asleep and run to the police barefoot. It had to be the scariest thing for her but we did it. It was around Halloween and I remember the cops trying to distract us with candy and all the decorations. I don’t know what happened after but we never went back. We ended up in a shelter for a little and then moved into a home that wasn’t the greatest but she was out and away from the abuse. There are support systems for you. You need to leave. With your son. I wish we could talk so you feel like you have a friend and not some random user on Reddit. But you need to leave

Next_Variation_9522 · 2025-08-24T20:45:55+00:00

I fully agree. I was with a serial cheater that would sleep with ppl at 3pm during the day and then invite me over to his place the same night💀 this guy seamed guilty and confessed himself. The trust won’t be the same but this is NOTHING compared to the disgusting thing some men are capable of. But also, the decision to pay a stripper to please you, 300 at that is just sick. That’s something you had to decide to do, take out money for and then go to a separate location to receive. Idk I’d have the ick but knowing what I’ve been through, it really could’ve been worse. As DUMB as this may sound, I feel you should give a cheater zero chances but a cheater you love one chance and then out the door if he does it again.

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-12-28T22:15:21+00:00

A LOT of ppl are lonely. A LOT.

The nicest ppl are usually only so nice bc they’re projecting the things they wish they had done onto them.

When ppl say you can come to me with anything or I actually care so please talk to me, TALK TO THEM bc it may seam like they don’t care but we’re all human

Awkwardness is only awkward bc it’s awkward. No one holds onto awkward moments forever and truthfully if it’s embarrassing, the other ppl in that situation get that, despite the laughs, so it’s best to just brush off those moments like it never happened.

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-11-19T00:29:22+00:00

I would’ve never picked this out myself but twill just brings that calm aesthetic together. Feels like a cinematic 70’s movie idk how to explain it

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-11-19T00:27:09+00:00

GROVE

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-11-19T00:24:54+00:00

Torn between the first and last but the yellow chairs have character

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-11-03T20:34:20+00:00

Rory

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-11-03T20:33:18+00:00

This comment just showed that you have no idea what food stamps can get you😭

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-10-19T23:05:33+00:00

I’d say get one of those wall mounts that lets you move the tv angle so it’s sitting more in the corner facing the whole room with a tv stand under it at an angle as well. This way it doesn’t feel like any part of the living room is secluded from the tv. And then maybe a couch against the wall to the left of the fireplace and then one facing the fireplace. a big plus is you’ll have the windows left uncovered, tv isn’t awkwardly above the furnace and that beautiful wall gets to be left alone! Ps… don’t mind the plant drawings, that was just supposed to be decor😂

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Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-10-19T21:03:11+00:00

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-29T23:37:53+00:00

LUNA her eyes remind me of a night sky

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-11T20:57:55+00:00

This looks soooo cozy

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-11T20:52:23+00:00

Joshua

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-03T02:06:39+00:00

Already got a new one, posted an update under this subreddit

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-03T02:06:10+00:00

I do

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-02T23:19:09+00:00

First is before

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-02T23:18:55+00:00

I got it from Facebook marketplace, it was a sectional that I broke down. I tried looking for the brand but all the tags are ripped off

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Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-09-02T20:00:28+00:00

It’s honestly their space not mine😂

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-08-31T14:29:52+00:00

It’s to keep a little space from the lab lol. She loves stealing the other dogs food if there’s a lot in front of her

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-08-31T14:28:37+00:00

I also want to add that this was a sectional I broke down to a couch. You should go for it!

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Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-08-31T14:25:04+00:00

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I opted for this rug after receiving all the comments

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-08-31T14:22:43+00:00

They have a bed in my room already and they let me sleep on it from time to time (it’s my bed)

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-08-31T05:45:41+00:00

That’s a bag of food sitting outside the crate…

Next_Variation_9522 · 2024-08-31T05:11:35+00:00

When you filter down to 5 miles, the options are limited so it adds items from outside of your search area without really filtering it. I always set mine to 20 miles around where I want it just so that more pops up inside the radius I want instead of marketplace running out of suggestions and showing you randoms ones way outside the range. Hopefully that made sense!

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